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Turning down a FS provider
- Thread starter Creampiemaster
- Start date
I pay FS pricing to get what I want with a great experience. Rarely FS. The difference in cost means more to them then it does to me. If you’re sweating $40-$60, maybe rethink your game. That’s what a veteran said once. I thought FU at the time, my money is precious, but now — experience and time has more value.
@Creampiemaster - any background for the question? These situations are highly nuanced and there must have been a reason. Share more.
I did it once. Long before you could check everything out on the internet.
I was traveling in Chicago and used the yellow page to find a provider.
Got in into her apartment and she looked ok except for some scratches/cuts on her knees. For some reason it really worried me and I told her I had to go. I believe the cuts made me think of a streetwalker.
Paid half the money and left.
She did seem shocked and asked me why. I told her it was my first time and too nervous.
You have 3 choices at that point
Try to leave without paying
Try paying only half
Pay the whole thing and leave
I was traveling in Chicago and used the yellow page to find a provider.
Got in into her apartment and she looked ok except for some scratches/cuts on her knees. For some reason it really worried me and I told her I had to go. I believe the cuts made me think of a streetwalker.
Paid half the money and left.
She did seem shocked and asked me why. I told her it was my first time and too nervous.
You have 3 choices at that point
Try to leave without paying
Try paying only half
Pay the whole thing and leave
This is the problem with society. We are afraid to say almost anything for fear of offending somebody. Lol.
If you want nothing, just say so...it doesn't need to be about her, it's about what your preference is.
If you want things but just not interested in the whole package, then say so. They understand that we are there to fill a specific need, and sometimes that comes with specific services.
I think you are imagining the worst case scenario is the likely outcome, when in reality, its probably hardly even going to be a big deal.
If you want nothing, just say so...it doesn't need to be about her, it's about what your preference is.
If you want things but just not interested in the whole package, then say so. They understand that we are there to fill a specific need, and sometimes that comes with specific services.
I think you are imagining the worst case scenario is the likely outcome, when in reality, its probably hardly even going to be a big deal.
Of course you can turn them down. If we’re talking about an amp and you only want a massage, just say so. In fact, if you just keep your underwear on, they probably won’t even try. If you’re talking an independent provider, my go to move if I get to the room and then change my mind and want to leave is to pretend I forgot the money in my car. Of course, they’re gonna let you go get it. Then you take off. (Obviously this is before any services are rendered. You’d be a scumbag to skip out on the bill after you’ve been served). If the provider doesn’t exactly live up to her photos, or something seems unsafe, you can absolutely leave and you should.
Nothing wrong with it, in all the time I’ve mongered there is 4-5 instances I can remember off the top of my head.
How to handle them varies……depends on the scenario. I’ve showed up to a providers room and when they’ve opened the door and look nothing like their ad in the worst way possible I’ve literally turned around without saying a word and walked back to my car with zero fucks given. Had a situation where I walked in a room and honestly felt like something was way off and pulled the “I left my money in the car” spiel and proceeded to leave. Even had one who fell asleep while we were doing a little foreplay because she was so drugged out, proceeded to just get dressed and leave, but I did leave a note saying I hope she got cleaned up because she seemed like a really nice girl sans the demons. Hell even had one pass out on me right after I finished and could have left without leaving her anything, but I’m not that person so left her envelope with donation and basically wrote the same note I did to the other one who passed out. AMP’s aren’t exempt either, had a time at an AC AMP where I was told only one girl was available, and when she came up to me to ask for her donation her breath was so repugnant I didn’t even want to imagine what other parts smelled like I walked out after telling her I’ll pass and never even attempted to go back there.
Have other stories but some aren’t meant to be shared on a message board, mongering can lead to a lot of crazy stories if you do it long enough. Point is every situation is different, and needs to be handled a certain way. Just walking out isn’t a crime if you aren’t comfortable or just don’t like what you see. Remember you’re paying the provider for their time and company, if you feel that company isn’t worth your money don’t be afraid to walk, just always be aware and careful to not get into a situation you can’t get out of if you do want to walk.
How to handle them varies……depends on the scenario. I’ve showed up to a providers room and when they’ve opened the door and look nothing like their ad in the worst way possible I’ve literally turned around without saying a word and walked back to my car with zero fucks given. Had a situation where I walked in a room and honestly felt like something was way off and pulled the “I left my money in the car” spiel and proceeded to leave. Even had one who fell asleep while we were doing a little foreplay because she was so drugged out, proceeded to just get dressed and leave, but I did leave a note saying I hope she got cleaned up because she seemed like a really nice girl sans the demons. Hell even had one pass out on me right after I finished and could have left without leaving her anything, but I’m not that person so left her envelope with donation and basically wrote the same note I did to the other one who passed out. AMP’s aren’t exempt either, had a time at an AC AMP where I was told only one girl was available, and when she came up to me to ask for her donation her breath was so repugnant I didn’t even want to imagine what other parts smelled like I walked out after telling her I’ll pass and never even attempted to go back there.
Have other stories but some aren’t meant to be shared on a message board, mongering can lead to a lot of crazy stories if you do it long enough. Point is every situation is different, and needs to be handled a certain way. Just walking out isn’t a crime if you aren’t comfortable or just don’t like what you see. Remember you’re paying the provider for their time and company, if you feel that company isn’t worth your money don’t be afraid to walk, just always be aware and careful to not get into a situation you can’t get out of if you do want to walk.
