Trying new vs sticking with old

[doofu77]

Do you guys ever have a hard time deciding whether you should try a new place/provider vs returning to a previous provider? With a previous provider you know what you're getting. But sometimes I feel like you're missing out on finding potentially better.

 

[eldiago12]

personally i stick with a regular place/providers because the more they know you the better service i get, on the other hand i go to a new place/provider after they're reviewed well and consistent but still stick with a regular place/provider

 

[BKLaFlare]

Yeah it’s exciting when you find something better/different but if you try a new spot and it’s worse, you can’t help but thinking that you just pissed away money not going for a sure thing..if you have the disposable income then you can gamble like that I guess but personally I try to balance between the two to minimize my losses

 

[harry206]

Personally, I need new pastures every few weeks - sticking with the same set of women is good to handle the mundane urges, but throwing a new face in helps spice up everything. Sessions with providers I have been with before also seem to become more interesting that way. I have spent a lot of time thinking and researching this and my conclusion is that this is the well-regarded Coolidge effect (https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect). Males were designed by nature to spread their seeds far and wide... and so we are the way we are!

 

[Baddanu]

Do you guys ever have a hard time deciding whether you should try a new place/provider vs returning to a previous provider? With a previous provider you know what you're getting. But sometimes I feel like you're missing out on finding potentially better.

It depends, some favourites get so used to you that they will take you for a granted a bit, bly slacking of on the quality of service, even at legit spas I have seen that, so I sometimes do not see them for months, when they ask i admit to going elsewhere, yes its a bit of a jerk move, but it is effective, one thing i hate with new providers, is if they are legit, you are not sure how long you have to play the long game for.

 

[takeya201]

I’m looking for a favorite or two to become a regular. I’ve sung high praise and had great chemistry and sessions with 2-3 providers but i do want to find the next best girl to see here and there.

 

[nycdude]

I have my favorite regulars, but I definitely like to try out new girls at least every 3rd session. Covid has things turned around. Now I am going through a new girl to do list because my favorites are not working. Also will trying out new agencies.

 

[defuncthammer]

No venture no success.

 

[carlob]

I’m constantly in search of new fields to plow. I will generally only do a repeat if there are no good new prospects available, although sometimes I’m just in the mood for a known quantity. Also if someone I like who is rarely around makes an appearance I may plump for that.

 

[rog314]

I try probably a handful of new ones (Indies)every year-sometimes you get a keeper or at times a traveling lady is fun too. Problem with indies is it is a ymmv situation and when you get the extra mileage it can be amazing and it keeps getting better.

 

[Retired031424]

I find that I have the most fun and best experiences on repeat visits after the ice has been broken and some trust and goodwill has been established.

My recent favorite just flew the coup. I'll miss her but I'm excited for the opportunity to visit some old friends and make some new ones.

 

[Wired172000]

I usually find a girl and stick with her for a while. But if I read the reviews on other gals regularly, I wonder why I’m missing out on new options.

 

[Flloydgondolli]

I keep my eye out for new talent, especially if the reviews are positive and they offer what I enjoy, but I like to stay with my tried and true regular, or perhaps familiar providers.

I’ll give an example:

My old school ATF was visiting once. Gorgeous Cuban Barbie doll. Wide open menu, and even more so with me as we’ve seen each other multiple times over the years (she travels here anywhere from 2 to 5 times a year depending). Very reasonably priced especially in terms of service and in fact her location was optimal. But....there was a new girl I had reached out to. Offered everything but was new, minimal reviews but appeared to have the vibe I was looking for at that particular time. Long story short - mistake. Should have stayed with my girl. Goes above and beyond for me (at least) and the other girl was a disappointment.

I’m not saying don’t look for new talent, but if your ATF Or a provide you have a hood rapport with has a limited schedule (for you at least), stick with What you know.

 

[Retired031424]

I keep my eye out for new talent, especially if the reviews are positive and they offer what I enjoy, but I like to stay with my tried and true regular, or perhaps familiar providers.

I’ll give an example:

My old school ATF was visiting once. Gorgeous Cuban Barbie doll. Wide open menu, and even more so with me as we’ve seen each other multiple times over the years (she travels here anywhere from 2 to 5 times a year depending). Very reasonably priced especially in terms of service and in fact her location was optimal. But....there was a new girl I had reached out to. Offered everything but was new, minimal reviews but appeared to have the vibe I was looking for at that particular time. Long story short - mistake. Should have stayed with my girl. Goes above and beyond for me (at least) and the other girl was a disappointment.

I’m not saying don’t look for new talent, but if your ATF Or a provide you have a hood rapport with has a limited schedule (for you at least), stick with What you know.

100% agree and have had the same experience myself more than once.

 

[nevereveroff]

No venture no success.

Can't agree anymore.

 

[Flloydgondolli]

Can't agree anymore.

Agree. But just remember to do your homework!

 

[Brandolkt]

I’m split both ways. The Brooklyn ladies like Lora and Alexandra are my regulars, but when I’m seeking a true gfe in the city, I’m always looking for the next best thing. I guess the convenience of being close to home outweighs the thrill of a new experience, but when I’m making such an effort as going to the city, I want to make sure I’m experience something new and exciting. Though I have seen Bella and Cora at NYAW more than once, but that’s because they rocked my world lol.