The Point of No Return

[Kinosellis]

Any idea whether these providers have normal or good sex lives after they leave the business? Providers who worked for a number of years will have had thousands of customers. It would seem that a significant number of these would be with guys they found repulsive. I would think these experience would likely have a very negative impact on their future sex lives, but I am not sure.

It’s just like normal women. I know a few that have basically zero sex or once a few months. There’s other that have sex daily. It really depends on how healthy their relationship is. Usually the less sex the more unhealthy the relationship is.

In my experience and my friends, working girls have a strong sex drive as long as they’re interested. I knew a girl that would work the whole day go to the bar after and pickup a random guy to sleep with and then go back to work the next day. There was never enough dick.

One girl was known to be a dead fish or kind of bland when working and she would go home and demand dick.

Other girls would never have sex unless they got paid. It really depends on their level of interest.

They’ve generally said that the amount of bad sex from work makes them very intolerant of bad sex in their private life. You’ll know pretty fast if you’re trash.

 

[whtwrth]

If you get into a relationship you are losing the ability to see a variety of women, which is I think the main reason we do this. And when it comes to straying, if you think keeping it a secret from a civ is difficult, imagine keeping it from a (former) spa girl. They know other girls, they know signs, they will figure it out. Also the girls are accustomed to having a large cash flow. They (gorgeous, 20's, in amazing shape) can make $5000/week in cash. They like having money and you will need to fill a $5000/week hole in their life. So what you bring to the table whether it be security, happiness, respect, warm-and-fuzzies has to be more valuable than that income. Or you must provide equivalent access to your own resources.

I dated a stripper for half a year. I don't think she was providing anything else, but it's hard to know for certain. I do know that at the end she lied about taking birth control and tried to get pregnant. At first it was kind of touching, but then really scary. Also when you get to know someone and live with them, you see a the non public side. This girl was extremely erratic and had serious mood swings that I didn't know about til she was completely comfortable with me and we were exclusive. After I ended it she was extremely clingy and tried really hard to get back together. It almost worked, these girls can be incredibly convincing.

 

[Eforel]

Also when you get to know someone and live with them, you see a the non public side. This girl was extremely erratic and had serious mood swings that I didn't know about til she was completely comfortable with me and we were exclusive. After I ended it she was extremely clingy and tried really hard to get back together.

Sounds like my ex-fiance, and 80% of the women I've dated!

 

[whtwrth]

Sounds like my ex-fiance, and 80% of the women I've dated!

True, but most relationships start in a casual and/or private setting. When you are with a spa girl, even 3 dozen times, she's been at work, she's on her best behavior. The mamasan is 20 feet away and she's getting paid. Lots of incentives to be charming and on her best behavior. It's easy to do for an hour at a time. If you live together or spend significant amounts of time alone, you might see a completely different person. Even if you thought you knew her so well. The rooms feel private but aren't, not really.

 

[whtwrth]

Basically at some point these girls will drop their spa persona, and you might not like what you find.

It's really hard to know someone when they are working and trying to be what your fantasy desires.