The mental war...

[SSatan]

So, every time my SO leaves town I get all excited to go out and get a little nuts. So my usual sophie's choice is: Go to a known, comfortable AMP and get a decent massage and leave feeling guilt free, OR, go to a new place and try all sorts of acronyms that might get me in trouble and put worry in my head for the next few weeks?

Do you do the same?

Torn between the safety my regular AMP and the thrill of a new FS/dongguang spot within walking distance from my house... dongguang is about .80 more... FWIW.

...or I just jerk it and go to bed.

 

[Bigtime645]

If it were me, nothing would stop me from going to a new spot. This is also one of the perks of choosing not to have a SO, we don't have these dilemmas.

 

[SSatan]

If I was single I would be hitting up 1-2 spots a week and still going to the bar right after. Also, if I had it to do over I would just make it clear to whoever I date that I see SWs and want an open relationship. Alas, I’m stuck here.

 

[Moetwet]

If I was single I would be hitting up 1-2 spots a week and still going to the bar right after. Also, if I had it to do over I would just make it clear to whoever I date that I see SWs and want an open relationship. Alas, I’m stuck here.

She might be open to joining…who knows

 

[Chik-N-Noodle]

dongguang spot is what exactly?

 

[Ankle_Socks]

So, every time my SO leaves town I get all excited to go out and get a little nuts. So my usual sophie's choice is: Go to a known, comfortable AMP and get a decent massage and leave feeling guilt free, OR, go to a new place and try all sorts of acronyms that might get me in trouble and put worry in my head for the next few weeks?

Do you do the same?

Torn between the safety my regular AMP and the thrill of a new FS/dongguang spot within walking distance from my house... dongguang is about .80 more... FWIW.

...or I just jerk it and go to bed.

Acronyms getting you in trouble and put worry in your head? .....um isn't the solution a Condom?

 

[Max Pressure]

Also, if I had it to do over I would just make it clear to whoever I date that I see SWs....

I see no benefit in bringing this up.