The Long Game

[AskAboutMe]

I had an experience this week where a provider I’ve been sweet talking and coddling for months and it finally paid off with some off menu services I didn’t have to pay extra for.

i just wonder how often it has worked for other people

(Don’t use any names obviously and if your story borders on harassment, seek help)

 

[scubatoo]

The IJAMPS (International Journal of AMP Science) recently published data on this. Apparently, all women of the world have similar XX chromosomes. One of those chromosomes produce heightened arousal in women (either intentional or unintentional) when they are exposed to regular heightened attention via physical contact, gifts, jewelry, monetary gain, or obvious insincere baiting. This can occur at different levels and timelines depending upon the arousal method used by males, where the XY chromosome is known to cause men to think with the wrong head. The study suggests that there is no difference between a woman in a dating situation and those being compensated for services. From an economic standpoint, the study suggests that the total expenditure of time and expense in these situations can be considerable. To avoid such economic detriment, the study suggests simply that deficient XY chromosome men find a woman who will immediately provide required services voluntarily or for a fee when first encountered thus limiting the effort to secure such a result. The study also refers men to an earlier publication: "Belt Notching: Why it only matters to the Notcher".

 

[Ellocohombre]

I take it you were the lead Phycologist for this study .

 

[CaptainMatt]

Scuba too. Funniest post in a long time

 

[labguy]

The long game strategy clearly violates the IJAMPS ‘s article recommendation in term of ‘economic consideration’. But the study did not discuss on the merit based on satisfaction and exclusivity which the long game will likely benefit more compared to the quick encounter approach.

 

[TheRiceGuy]

I would say it’s pretty rare but it does happen. I personally had experiences, don’t care and doesn’t matter if anyone believes it. I also had similar situations where you knew they just wanted money/gifts.

None of them lasted long enough to see if there was a true ulterior motive, so who knows. If both parties have a good understand of what the situation is, it can be a lot of fun.

 

[Kraven]

The IJAMPS (International Journal of AMP Science) recently published data on this. Apparently, all women of the world have similar XX chromosomes. One of those chromosomes produce heightened arousal in women (either intentional or unintentional) when they are exposed to regular heightened attention via physical contact, gifts, jewelry, monetary gain, or obvious insincere baiting. This can occur at different levels and timelines depending upon the arousal method used by males, where the XY chromosome is known to cause men to think with the wrong head. The study suggests that there is no difference between a woman in a dating situation and those being compensated for services. From an economic standpoint, the study suggests that the total expenditure of time and expense in these situations can be considerable. To avoid such economic detriment, the study suggests simply that deficient XY chromosome men find a woman who will immediately provide required services voluntarily or for a fee when first encountered thus limiting the effort to secure such a result. The study also refers men to an earlier publication: "Belt Notching: Why it only matters to the Notcher".

Hilarious and true:

“deficient XY chromosome men find a woman”…..all you need to know about the hobby lol

 

[kantuchdis]

Excellent post Scub

 

[Ronin]

Classic

 

[Polaroid]

Scub that post may be too good, lmk if you wanna sell me the rest of your Ritalin the IJAMPS I don’t know about you guys but I really want that to be a real acronym

 

[Barabula]

It does happen but requires a girl to be attracted to you/have chemistry and/or have some prospects for the future (near or far doesn’t matter) and feel very safe/trust you.

 

[TripleD116]

It does happen but requires a girl to be attracted to you/have chemistry and/or have some prospects for the future (near or far doesn’t matter) and feel very safe/trust you.

Gaining these girls trust is the hardest thing, they are very closed off. It’s not impossible to do very rare though. After a few visits with a provide (will go unamed) we had chemistry.... idk 2 people just click it’s the same as meeting a regular girl in the normal world sometimes there’s just a connection. The girl and I see each other outside of the spa regularly and talk all the time. Just be careful on the gifts end IMO.... I gave almost nothing for awhile except a backrub lol... she gave a lot to me for quite sometime way more than I gave her.., like literally she would buy me gifts and more.... I did this on purpose because I was very careful To make sure The connection was real And not for something else. After quite a long time I felt comfortable and took her away for a few days, bought her a few things, she still will buy me things when she goes back to NY for visits. We have a casual dating thing going on where we see each other a few times a week sometimes less depending on schedules(she still Has to work). But that’s all I am looking for. So to end this long message there are success stories out there depending on what you are looking for

 

[Ontheball]

I "dated" a independent provider for a while ( for 6 months ) after I handful of visits. I use the word "dated" loosely as I was looking for frequent NSA fun while she wanted financial security. She was living in Center City at the time and the first time we broke that ice after a session where we ended up chatting for an hour. It was the weekend so I decided to keep the party going so I asked her if wanted to get some food drinks. That night we ended up having a ton of fun including going to a night club. The next morning when I wake up at her place. She's like normally it's xxxx for the whole night... After some discussion we decided that this could be fun and mutually beneficial. We ended up in a SB/SD relationship. That relationship eventually ran its course. I started seeing someone else ( a civilian ) and she no longer was in need of the benefits I provided as she found a job in her studied field.

Obviously my wallet was attractive but their were other factors that made us attracted to each other beyond the physical. For example what she was studying happened to be the same thing I do professionally. Even now as she has long been out of the game and the relationship ended several years ago we remain friends and occasionally see each other socially. A couple of times we've "relieved" old memories. We people ask how we met we usually say we met on Tinder.

My thing is if you treat anyone like a person and get to know them while not shameing them anything can happen. We all have our reasons why we hobby and they got their reasons why they are providers. Also having disposable income doesn't hurt.

 

[TripleD116]

I "dated" a independent provider for a while ( for 6 months ) after I handful of visits. I use the word "dated" loosely as I was looking for frequent NSA fun while she wanted financial security. She was living in Center City at the time and the first time we broke that ice after a session where we ended up chatting for an hour. It was the weekend so I decided to keep the party going so I asked her if wanted to get some food drinks. That night we ended up having a ton of fun including going to a night club. The next morning when I wake up at her place. She's like normally it's xxxx for the whole night... After some discussion we decided that this could be fun and mutually beneficial. We ended up in a SB/SD relationship. That relationship eventually ran its course. I started seeing someone else ( a civilian ) and she no longer was in need of the benefits I provided as she found a job in her studied field.

Obviously my wallet was attractive but their were other factors that made us attracted to each other beyond the physical. For example what she was studying happened to be the same thing I do professionally. Even now as she has long been out of the game and the relationship ended several years ago we remain friends and occasionally see each other socially. A couple of times we've "relieved" old memories. We people ask how we met we usually say we met on Tinder.

My thing is if you treat anyone like a person and get to know them while not shameing them anything can happen. We all have our reasons why we hobby and they got their reasons why they are providers. Also having disposable income doesn't hurt.

I totally agree with all your points. It’s all about what you are looking to get out of seeing a provider outside of the business end that you have with them that’s how most of these staRt is clearly the business side. My experience was after the 2nd visit and the connection was noticed for both of us, the 3rd visit I was told she didn’t want my money any longer just me. That morphed into much more, and where we are today. I think there is definitely much more interest long term on her end than mine (the financial security end). I am not rich, i am not poor I do well. we are both the same age and really enjoy each other’s company so IMO I just keep going and who knows I live by that I don’t worry about the future it works itself out. But I would call your story a success IMO

 

[ericjames]

I totally agree with all your points. It’s all about what you are looking to get out of seeing a provider outside of the business end that you have with them that’s how most of these staRt is clearly the business side. My experience was after the 2nd visit and the connection was noticed for both of us, the 3rd visit I was told she didn’t want my money any longer just me. That morphed into much more, and where we are today. I think there is definitely much more interest long term on her end than mine (the financial security end). I am not rich, i am not poor I do well. we are both the same age and really enjoy each other’s company so IMO I just keep going and who knows I live by that I don’t worry about the future it works itself out. But I would call your story a success IMO

I was seeing an independent years ago she was in her mid forties very attractive with a killer body. When I first started seeing her it was very professional and never a hint of anything. The weird thing was she was not a very good masseuse I only went because it was close to work and nice to get out at lunch time...plus she was nice on the eyes. I would say I would see her twice a month and very reasonably priced. She would never fully undrape me during massage and that was fine for a while. Now you may think this is crazy but this went on for a long time...probably a year or more...stay with me here....she had really nice top and was very curious about ever getting a look at them. One day I just said do you think you would ever take your shirt off during the massage. She said next time when you come back I will think about it. Well the next time came and she agreed to take her shirt off down to her bra. Wow very nice looking boobs! Few visits more I asked for the bra to come off....some more visits more convinced her to strip down to just her panties...few more visits totally naked...few more visits...well you could just imagine!

 

[Wayne1250]

That's too much hard work for me, lol.

 

[ericjames]

That's too much hard work for me, lol.

Yes it was a lot of hard work! But she was so damn good looking!

 

[Twp1032]

I was seeing an independent years ago she was in her mid forties very attractive with a killer body. When I first started seeing her it was very professional and never a hint of anything. The weird thing was she was not a very good masseuse I only went because it was close to work and nice to get out at lunch time...plus she was nice on the eyes. I would say I would see her twice a month and very reasonably priced. She would never fully undrape me during massage and that was fine for a while. Now you may think this is crazy but this went on for a long time...probably a year or more...stay with me here....she had really nice top and was very curious about ever getting a look at them. One day I just said do you think you would ever take your shirt off during the massage. She said next time when you come back I will think about it. Well the next time came and she agreed to take her shirt off down to her bra. Wow very nice looking boobs! Few visits more I asked for the bra to come off....some more visits more convinced her to strip down to just her panties...few more visits totally naked...few more visits...well you could just imagine!

You're Batman

 

[East Lake II]

The IJAMPS (International Journal of AMP Science) recently published data on this. Apparently, all women of the world have similar XX chromosomes. One of those chromosomes produce heightened arousal in women (either intentional or unintentional) when they are exposed to regular heightened attention via physical contact, gifts, jewelry, monetary gain, or obvious insincere baiting. This can occur at different levels and timelines depending upon the arousal method used by males, where the XY chromosome is known to cause men to think with the wrong head. The study suggests that there is no difference between a woman in a dating situation and those being compensated for services. From an economic standpoint, the study suggests that the total expenditure of time and expense in these situations can be considerable. To avoid such economic detriment, the study suggests simply that deficient XY chromosome men find a woman who will immediately provide required services voluntarily or for a fee when first encountered thus limiting the effort to secure such a result. The study also refers men to an earlier publication: "Belt Notching: Why it only matters to the Notcher".

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