Exactly.
You have to know what you're getting into before you do outside meetups. You don't just go for the first girl upon first visit and ask her to hang out or accept if she wants to hang out. Go see her a couple of times and see how she is.
I made the mistake of seeing a money hungry immature girl. I regret it. I had a good time in the beginning but then i found out the real her. And i cut her off quick, blocked her off my phone and never saw her again. Both outside and at her workplace.
If you choose wisely, you get some good stuff for the outside. But again, you should see her at her workplace every once in a while. To show support for the establishment as well as being courteous.
Wise words. If the girl wants outside meetups and cash, that’s their objective and I can totally understand that. If they want some kind of relationship that feels normal to them, this is a great outcome imo. High likelihood of exceptional service outside of the shops and you can really see the girl for who she is at a restaurant, bar, or just walking around and shopping.
Once during a slow period of the day, I took the girl to a local coffee shop right after our session and chatted for 90 minutes. While we were there, she got a call from mamasan to head back for an upcoming appointment and walked back in together. Ended up delivering drinks to the other girls inside. Was rewarded with a 15 minute insanely fun session prior to another knock by mama insisting on the girl to get ready for her next customer. That was really fun, for both of us, and started fairly regular meetups outside depending on mutual availability.