There is long running thread over at RM where folks discuss this topic at length. Many partaken marriage with pros, imagine that
and pretty much all of that ended in tears. But they all have one thing in common, this time it's different and they know better how to make it work...
Needless to say tons of BA guys have fairly poor sense of quality or have lost touch with reality and think flaunting wealth to impress hooker is only way to go. Bat shit crazy. Even a mail-in bride from Ukraine seems like a better now...
Not sure what RM is, but as you would likely agree, the forums I've been on over the years depending on where I was living and hobbying at the time provide a a regular supply of threads like this. Even when there's great quality the problem seems to be more the monger's fucked in the head mindset than poor sense of quality.
The man who is amazed that 2 Benjamins gets him the milk whenever he wants, gets drunk on it, then addicted, and extrapolates that therefore, 20 will get him the cow.
Cow, not woman. She's not really a person to them when it comes down to it and if more like a toy, something he superimposes his fantasy upon. She can't speak English which makes it easier on these RA's than the P411 types. Plenty of those with money to afford the $1K an hour initial meeting hobby here but inconveniently she seems too much like the women he already sees at school, work, at the mall or in the bars. The RA seems unfamiliar with 'Murica and therefore is somewhat backward, even savage. He delights in showing her the ways of civilization and the amazing things about the New World. He was taught in school that Manhattan was bought for a belt of beads from the natives. The translator app hides his awkwardness with words or lack of finesse. She pretends to be amazed by the expensive food he said he bought with the Panda logo or the Ferrari key and keychain he tosses on the bedside table and brings her attention to that he bought on Ebay. The keys that is, not the car. She smiles and makes him feel like a stud to get repeat business or a tip. He has seen women brought home from foreign wars who seem submissive and exotic and happy they left everything behind for a "better life" in the US. Finally, a playing field where he has some kind of advantage. He has a chance to win the game and be worshipped as a hero.
The girls may not speak English, but body language and other signs are pretty universal to humans and most are pretty good at figuring people out. They may even play it dumb or backward to lead the guy holding out the belt of beads to offer more. I think they are far better on average understanding what motivates the monger than the monger understands them.
In the end, women can be scary fucking creatures and meeting the wrong one will fuck your life up like you would never believe even in your worst nightmares. Meeting the right one can be the best thing that ever happened to you. True, not all those who come here to work came here out of desperation or need to send money back. Some just saw this as a way to make more money in a short time than their current available options. Some had a list of Chanel bags and other accoutrements and when they saw the total, have a number they think they can make in 3 months, buy it and go back to their lives back home and could not imagine life here devoid of the close knit support of their mom, aunts, cousins, who all think she came here to study abroad for 3 months.
The majority of women in any country would still not make that choice to do this as tempting as the money may be unless their children are starving. Even then, there are many who would never.
Those who pass that filter and come here are not the type looking to save up to build an orphanage.
If anything the best chance is to genuinely impress her that you have feelings for her as a person and have her feel the same, plus you have the funds to provide her with what she considers an acceptable lifestyle as a bonus. It's called chemistry and money can't buy love. It's damn near impossible after the door magically opens because they are wearing a mask underneath the mask.
Is that really any different from any other relationship? But if the OP knew that, they'd not be posting in the first place.
It's shit like this that keeps forums entertaining.
