I read through this thread, and a lot of the takes are probably what I would have posted when I was a young. I have an older man with a few bucks kinda take...
These girls are supremely lonely. They are in a foreign country and do this work because they absolutely have to; whether its to provide for a husband and child, their parents, husband left them and they have no education or prospects, and a number of other reasons; but almost always because this is their best option. Many of them have families who think they are here in school, working at restaurants, or in hospitality. Are there some who just like fucking? Maybe. But these ladies are hold up in these dingy parlors all day, and some even sleep there, with girls coming and going, men treating them like shit, terrible internet; not a particularly exciting life.
I personally love to take these girls out to give them a sense of normalcy. I don't try to get on them or act all romantic with them, we just pal around. I take them to the mall, or to a nice restaurant. Believe it or not, they generally know nothing about the Bay Area or the fact that we have a ton of food pretty close to what they are used to at home. I love to see the smile on their faces as they order some Sichuan food they haven't had in months, or taking a Taiwanese girl to Din Tai Fung where she used to go back home. It's fun for me.
They love to remember what a normal life is like, and some of them have said as much. Sometimes we fuck, most of the time we don't, it all depends and what she wants, she has the control outside with me, and I like to give them that. I haven't had the chance yet, mostly because of their schedules, but I wouldn't mind taking them to LA, San Diego, or Hawaii for a few days; just to give them a sense of a normal life.
Am I going to marry any of these girls?, probably not, and for the most part, I'm at an age where being with someone is more of a matter of practicality than anything else. Some of these girls never even finished primary school back home, and their only prospect to add value to my life is if they cook, and can be a badass wifey. I'll shoot for doctors, engineers, and lawyers.
These women are people too, and they want to be loved and cared for. Getting plowed all day by god knows what kind of sick fucks some of us are, can probably do a real number on their mental health. Seeing them happy for a few hours, makes me happy, and honestly they are better memories for me, than banging them in the shop.
These girls are supremely lonely. They are in a foreign country and do this work because they absolutely have to; whether its to provide for a husband and child, their parents, husband left them and they have no education or prospects, and a number of other reasons; but almost always because this is their best option. Many of them have families who think they are here in school, working at restaurants, or in hospitality. Are there some who just like fucking? Maybe. But these ladies are hold up in these dingy parlors all day, and some even sleep there, with girls coming and going, men treating them like shit, terrible internet; not a particularly exciting life.
I personally love to take these girls out to give them a sense of normalcy. I don't try to get on them or act all romantic with them, we just pal around. I take them to the mall, or to a nice restaurant. Believe it or not, they generally know nothing about the Bay Area or the fact that we have a ton of food pretty close to what they are used to at home. I love to see the smile on their faces as they order some Sichuan food they haven't had in months, or taking a Taiwanese girl to Din Tai Fung where she used to go back home. It's fun for me.
They love to remember what a normal life is like, and some of them have said as much. Sometimes we fuck, most of the time we don't, it all depends and what she wants, she has the control outside with me, and I like to give them that. I haven't had the chance yet, mostly because of their schedules, but I wouldn't mind taking them to LA, San Diego, or Hawaii for a few days; just to give them a sense of a normal life.
Am I going to marry any of these girls?, probably not, and for the most part, I'm at an age where being with someone is more of a matter of practicality than anything else. Some of these girls never even finished primary school back home, and their only prospect to add value to my life is if they cook, and can be a badass wifey. I'll shoot for doctors, engineers, and lawyers.
These women are people too, and they want to be loved and cared for. Getting plowed all day by god knows what kind of sick fucks some of us are, can probably do a real number on their mental health. Seeing them happy for a few hours, makes me happy, and honestly they are better memories for me, than banging them in the shop.