Taking kgirl out on a casual date.

[StylesBitchley]

I had a girl ask if I'd eaten lunch. Should have said no so I could get some of those drinks and snacks.

I lived off and on in an escort's house for about six months. Turned out she had a well-concealed drug habit and it ended badly. Got a letter from an attorney about a year later at my work asking if I would waive my parental rights so that "my child" could be put up for adoption. I called the attorney and denied having a relationship with the woman. Never heard back.

It was the worst time of my life.

Don't give these girls any real information. Seriously.

 

[Freedom1999]

I wouldn't take a provider on a date no matter how hot she is and even if she spoke english. they see like 10 mongers a day. She's just using you.

You don't think the person taking her out on a date isn't using her too?

 

[daysdealz]

I wouldn't take a provider on a date no matter how hot she is and even if she spoke english. they see like 10 mongers a day. She's just using you.

There are obviously some girls that just want a guy to buy them stuff. Or worse guys that pay hourly fee to take the girl to lunch. I would never pay to take them on a date or buy them coach bags or such. I don't think I'm better than these girls just because they have sex for money and more over I pay for their services how can I judge them for something a participate in. But Yes there are plenty of guys who look down on these girls but also have not problem sleeping with them.

 

[DudeX]

Daysdeals = Radoness

Nah, not this one. Randomesss would claim to be a software engineer at least once in every 3 sentences he writes.

 

[raiderzfan]

Playing house for 300HR. I LOL evertime.

 

[CenturyLink]

My first post was kind of harsh, didn't have enough time to edit. But I don't think all mongers who take k girls on dates are using them. Sounds more like they're helping them run errands, providing transportation, etc. I've never taken a provider on a date and several of them have gave me their number. A few of them said they like me. I'm just not into them for going out on dates. There's tons of girls walking around San Jose that are much better for dating. And I don't look down on them. I always treat k girls with respect and Im gentle with them. I guess if a monger wants to be nice and hang out then sure why not. That helps us other mongers get better service because she got to go out and breathe some fresh air. I didn't consider that there's older gentlemen here who would love to take a young k girl on a date.

 

[Twister]

There are obviously some girls that just want a guy to buy them stuff. Or worse guys that pay hourly fee to take the girl to lunch. I would never pay to take them on a date or buy them coach bags or such. I don't think I'm better than these girls just because they have sex for money and more over I pay for their services how can I judge them for something a participate in. But Yes there are plenty of guys who look down on these girls but also have not problem sleeping with them.

I don’t know how many look down on the women as opposed to looking down on the men who fall in love or take them out. This line of work is not normal and falling for these girls will lead to psychiatric issues guaranteed if you don’t already have them.

Who wants their SO having un protected sex with 7-12 guys a day letting them cum inside their pussy and mouths and do all sorts of crazy sexual things to them all day every day? Good luck with that.

 

[Resoroam]

My worry would also be that you would burn bridges with her or her PO. I don't know I would take that risk.

Not worth it tbh. You hang out, take them shopping and mundane stuff. Sure you get some perks but it’s more trouble then it’s worth. Not worth getting blacklisted. Or who knows perhaps your more empathetic and patient.

 

[SixDnine]

I hate to burst some bubbles but there's a good percentage of these girls that are married and have a family back home in Korea. They come here for the money while the husband takes care of the kids. How the husband copes is none of my business.

 

[raiderzfan]

I hate to burst some bubbles but there's a good percentage of these girls that are married and have a family back home in Korea. They come here for the money while the husband takes care of the kids. How the husband copes is none of my business.

Let’s not forget most are late in their 30, 40, 50, 60’s. I laugh at 20’s. The ones with big nipples surely have kids too.

 

[justmaui]

Nothing wrong with helping a favorite girl out. Do what you're comfortable with and have a little fun.

Some grad student should take this on as a thesis project, get into a regular cadence with a girl, get on her good side, spend time off the clock with her, document her behavior, etc. and end up with a Phd and probably have all costs covered by a grant.

 

[Retired041524-01]

I have an ATF that I have seen many times and lately I think she has dropped a few hints about hanging out. I don't think she wants a relationship but we just have some similar interests and I think she just wants someone she's comfortable with to hang out with. I don't want a girlfriend and I gather that she doesn't want a boyfriend. Has anyone hung out with a Kgirl just on a casual date between like friends?

There’s pros n cons to this type of arrangement. If you can keep your boundaries and understand your motives for doing this then go ahead and have a fun experience.

A few words of caution, you are not the only one she has asked this arrangement, regardless of what you feel or believe or what she tells you.

 

[CenturyLink]

For all who do want to take k girls on dates, if your wondering if shes interested (idk if it's genuine) . She'll just say "I like you". This always happened during deep eye contact while cuddling. They'll run their finger along your brow. Or they'll tuck their head into your chest with their eyes closed like their shy and squeeze herself into you. Maybe they do this with everyone. Idk hehe.

 

[mknegative]

For all who do want to take k girls on dates, if your wondering if shes interested (idk if it's genuine) . She'll just say "I like you". This always happened during deep eye contact while cuddling. They'll run their finger along your brow. Or they'll tuck their head into your chest with their eyes closed like their shy and squeeze herself into you. Maybe they do this with everyone. Idk hehe.

Kgirls that do that are pros, they do that to everyone and know what they're doing. Especially if its a kgirl that's been here for a while, they know how to make it seem genuine n real to the average monger. That's their attempt to get you to fall for them or atleast become a regular to keep repeating.

It's not that hard to take a kgirl out, just pay for a multi hr. If you're talking about otc, well.. depending on the org but if certain orgs find out about otc they will def BL you in a heartbeat. Certain orgs don't care and encourage it if they know the kgirl is actually into you(iykyk).

 

[3lu0k5b8]

Before covid when I was deeper in the hobby I went out regularly with around 5 girls over different periods, never on the clock. This was before current period of widespread PSE. On the whole a very good experience since I didn't have any obligations/responsibilities and I wasn't meeting many women I was interested in through other avenues. I imagine it can be quite a pain if you have any sort of familial obligations though. Went on vacations a few times and had a lot of bb fun in hotels and occasionally their rooms. Back then a lot of the girls' ultimate goal was to obtain a green card. One young hot girl even offered to give me five figures to marry her for a few years; this was after a few months of hanging out and fucking bb in hotels on one or two night stayvacations around the bay. On the other hand, Gloria (SJ legend near river oaks) was just accumulating funds for investment back home, but she was genuinely a really kind girl who took me out for dinner multiple nights a week during our time. Regarding possible psychiatric issue of their being in this occupation, I don't really think it's a big deal mentally, as long as you're not shacking up or settling down with them, since this is just part of the culture in east asia, where lots of women are pushed/pulled into it due to low salaries/temp jobs.

 

[Twister]

Before covid when I was deeper in the hobby I went out regularly with around 5 girls over different periods, never on the clock. This was before current period of widespread PSE. On the whole a very good experience since I didn't have any obligations/responsibilities and I wasn't meeting many women I was interested in through other avenues. I imagine it can be quite a pain if you have any sort of familial obligations though. Went on vacations a few times and had a lot of bb fun in hotels and occasionally their rooms. Back then a lot of the girls' ultimate goal was to obtain a green card. One young hot girl even offered to give me five figures to marry her for a few years; this was after a few months of hanging out and fucking bb in hotels on one or two night stayvacations around the bay. On the other hand, Gloria (SJ legend near river oaks) was just accumulating funds for investment back home, but she was genuinely a really kind girl who took me out for dinner multiple nights a week during our time. Regarding possible psychiatric issue of their being in this occupation, I don't really think it's a big deal mentally, as long as you're not shacking up or settling down with them, since this is just part of the culture in east asia, where lots of women are pushed/pulled into it due to low salaries/temp jobs.

The psychiatric comment was based on the fact many of the guys seeing these women are pretty pathetic when it comes to dating. I’ve also been interrupted mid BJ by a monger banging on the door like the police. Scared the shit out of me. The girl got up and I heard them arguing in the doorway. She came back and apologized and said that guy thinks he’s her boyfriend and is really jealous.

 

[Dthgrpz]

I don’t know how many look down on the women as opposed to looking down on the men who fall in love or take them out. This line of work is not normal and falling for these girls will lead to psychiatric issues guaranteed if you don’t already have them.

Who wants their SO having un protected sex with 7-12 guys a day letting them cum inside their pussy and mouths and do all sorts of crazy sexual things to them all day every day? Good luck with that.

I swear you're one of the few voices of reason on this board lol

 

[Dthgrpz]

The psychiatric comment was based on the fact many of the guys seeing these women are pretty pathetic when it comes to dating. I’ve also been interrupted mid BJ by a monger banging on the door like the police. Scared the shit out of me. The girl got up and I heard them arguing in the doorway. She came back and apologized and said that guy thinks he’s her boyfriend and is really jealous.

This happened to me back when gm was still open , provider was getting calls from her jealous bf back home and it totally killed the vibe of the session.

 

[Twister]

This happened to me back when gm was still open , provider was getting calls from her jealous bf back home and it totally killed the vibe of the session.

Yup, it’s very common. If the guy knows what they are doing he will go crazy sitting there thinking about it. It’s normal to.

This work isn’t like dating a porn star. At least with them it’s a controlled environment with testing and documented etc. while it’s also cringe to think about dating a porn actress, they only do a few shoots per month usually. These AAMP girls are doing much crazier risky sex acts with multiple men day in and day out for months on end. It’s lunacy to even think you’d want to date one of them.

 

[Francoislegrand]

I read through this thread, and a lot of the takes are probably what I would have posted when I was a young. I have an older man with a few bucks kinda take...

These girls are supremely lonely. They are in a foreign country and do this work because they absolutely have to; whether its to provide for a husband and child, their parents, husband left them and they have no education or prospects, and a number of other reasons; but almost always because this is their best option. Many of them have families who think they are here in school, working at restaurants, or in hospitality. Are there some who just like fucking? Maybe. But these ladies are hold up in these dingy parlors all day, and some even sleep there, with girls coming and going, men treating them like shit, terrible internet; not a particularly exciting life.

I personally love to take these girls out to give them a sense of normalcy. I don't try to get on them or act all romantic with them, we just pal around. I take them to the mall, or to a nice restaurant. Believe it or not, they generally know nothing about the Bay Area or the fact that we have a ton of food pretty close to what they are used to at home. I love to see the smile on their faces as they order some Sichuan food they haven't had in months, or taking a Taiwanese girl to Din Tai Fung where she used to go back home. It's fun for me.

They love to remember what a normal life is like, and some of them have said as much. Sometimes we fuck, most of the time we don't, it all depends and what she wants, she has the control outside with me, and I like to give them that. I haven't had the chance yet, mostly because of their schedules, but I wouldn't mind taking them to LA, San Diego, or Hawaii for a few days; just to give them a sense of a normal life.

Am I going to marry any of these girls?, probably not, and for the most part, I'm at an age where being with someone is more of a matter of practicality than anything else. Some of these girls never even finished primary school back home, and their only prospect to add value to my life is if they cook, and can be a badass wifey. I'll shoot for doctors, engineers, and lawyers.

These women are people too, and they want to be loved and cared for. Getting plowed all day by god knows what kind of sick fucks some of us are, can probably do a real number on their mental health. Seeing them happy for a few hours, makes me happy, and honestly they are better memories for me, than banging them in the shop.