Met mine on Seeking Arrangements. There are a lot of 'site-paid' bait girls on the site but there are some real ones too. I did not pay for the site, I just sent the girls my email address in a message to contact me if interested. Once one of the paid girls saw a message of mine, they edited all of my messages to remove information that I sent. 1 girl had already responded to me via off-site email, so I am currently seeing her every week, sometimes twice a week since May. The girls can see your messages but you can't see theirs without paying. Just be careful of who you message and try to avoid those bait girls (they a usually the ones that look too good to be true).