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Success with Seeking?
- Thread starter brianzimmermann90
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I tried it for about a year and our local Kgirl scene is a much better value . I had better luck on SA than SB as girls on SB would rarely message back and SB nickles and dimes you to death. Both sites run pretty rampant with GPS as most girls are asking for $$$$ to $$$$$$+ plus the cost of a hotel. I had one gal who wanted $$$ just to have dinner. I did have a few nice encounters with average to GND looking gals but trying to coordinate around schedules get a hotel room only to have them need to reschedule was a pain in the ass. Also both sites are filled with scammers for example can you send me $ to get my hair and nails done, so I can look pretty for you. Also be careful how you communicate on SA as they monitor the messages any mention of a combination of sexual act and $ will get you banned with no refund of membership.
In my experience, if you can get a hot girl there to fuck you once and you treat her with respect and understand that she is using you for a little financial help, it is a relationship you can milk forever, even if she gets a boyfriend. I've had SBs pawn me off into their BFFs because they trust me.
College girls can always use the money and like sex just as much as guys, but they can get it anywhere whenever they want. The primary problem is they worry about their safety.
Don't get possessive, and respect women. Keep it transactional. Trust is earned.
College girls can always use the money and like sex just as much as guys, but they can get it anywhere whenever they want. The primary problem is they worry about their safety.
Don't get possessive, and respect women. Keep it transactional. Trust is earned.
Wade your way through the 60% international / out of town spam, then the "platonic only" jokesters, the professional low-end escorts, the send-me-money in advance cheats, the pay $$$ to meet-up swindlers, the I need $5k/month "allowance"...
then you can play the ghosting message game. Finally at the end of the tunnel, you may find one or two gems after 1-3 months of due diligence work.
So if you are willing to do the work, it can pay off. I have found several over the years.
You do have to watch out though, one pulled this "hey I'm pregnant and need $$$$ for an abortion.." con. Good to have the snip-snip first.
then you can play the ghosting message game. Finally at the end of the tunnel, you may find one or two gems after 1-3 months of due diligence work.
So if you are willing to do the work, it can pay off. I have found several over the years.
You do have to watch out though, one pulled this "hey I'm pregnant and need $$$$ for an abortion.." con. Good to have the snip-snip first.
Works great when you know how to work it and actually put a bit of effort into it. Glad to know more people are being dissuaded from joining the website. Tons of hot college girls and the cost is only a couple hundred to a few hundred dollars more. Takes way more patience, but quality wise, way better than any girl you can find in an AAMP by a long shot.
One of my friends has been doing it for quite some time. I couldn't understand why.
What I learnt is that he spends a LOT of time to find someone. Then there are a lot of dates etc too. It comes out more costly. But "feels" real. He sometimes spends 4-5 hours with the girl. He thinks it's real. So it's also a placebo.
What I learnt is that he spends a LOT of time to find someone. Then there are a lot of dates etc too. It comes out more costly. But "feels" real. He sometimes spends 4-5 hours with the girl. He thinks it's real. So it's also a placebo.
It's not really a good platform if you're just looking for shot term hook up, but more-so in finding long-term-ish girl while still meeting some of your parameters(and theirs too). I'd say baseline if you don't have at least 3 ~ 5k to spend per month for the hobby comfortably it's not for you. It was a good alternative to regular dating apps, as I had disposable income but was limited on free time and didn't want marriage or end up with a kid. Like with any regular dating, it helps to be tall, fit and have $.
I monger Korg time to time, but I spend more effort through seeking. I am in my 40s, reasonably in shape so I haven't had too many issues with finding opportunities on seeking. Having said that, it feels like managing a mistress (seeking) so more effort/time/$$/communication is needed. SB/SD gives you the true "GFE" experience that K/Corgs won't give ya. But YMMV
"Depends" is really my answer. Having lived in East Coast when I used to use seeking (back then seekingarrangement) more regularly, the cost associated with having SB in nor cal is exponentially high. Some girls, I offer more, based on their appearance and what they are willing to do with me (meeting at certain time of the day, at certain location, etc).
I will say there are additional costs associated with seeking:
1) Hotels. No girls have ever wanted to host. This means you are having to pay out $$$ to book a hotel . Dayuse is an option but not always available.
2) Dinner(dining) - self explanatory, but bay area dining is expensive
3) gifts (time to time) - depends on YOU and the girl.
So what's the fun with Seeking that you can't get at Korg/Corg? I recently met up with a virgin (yes i know) 20 year old. I have been with her now for a few months and watching her transform from run-away at attempt to finger to now asking me to take videos of her getting doggied. That fun, you can't get at typical mongering place.
I will say there are additional costs associated with seeking:
1) Hotels. No girls have ever wanted to host. This means you are having to pay out $$$ to book a hotel . Dayuse is an option but not always available.
2) Dinner(dining) - self explanatory, but bay area dining is expensive
3) gifts (time to time) - depends on YOU and the girl.
So what's the fun with Seeking that you can't get at Korg/Corg? I recently met up with a virgin (yes i know) 20 year old. I have been with her now for a few months and watching her transform from run-away at attempt to finger to now asking me to take videos of her getting doggied. That fun, you can't get at typical mongering place.
