Strip club noob

[october11a]

So I matched with this stripper on tinder and I'm hooked, I have NO shot but I gotta see this girl and get a dance/VIP.


Now, at Delilahs does anyone know the average cost of vip room and extras? I'm sure it's different from girl to girl but honestly this girl could make me jizz in my pants and I'd be happy so I'm just looking to make sure I don't completely overshoot and pay too much for a private dance.


I heard it's 1.25 just to get in vip and I assume the girl wants more money on top of that... I could see this girl massively upcharging too even if I don't telegraph how into her I am.


Obviously I'm down bad but my main q is, is the vip room kinda like negotiating with the ladies at massage? It's ymmv?

 

[october11a]

I've never been to a strip club if it's not painfully obvious.


Also what's the dress code I wanna wear sweat pants lmao

 

[Juiced27111]

I've never been to a strip club if it's not painfully obvious.


Also what's the dress code I wanna wear sweat pants lmao

Wear whatever you want. They’ll hit u about 25/30 at the door then u gotta buy water or soda. I belive broads are still 25 dances. But she gonna open you up. Buck n change for the room. Then prob the same for her. So if you’re lookin to get it in. Better have at least 4

 

[ASHP585]

I am not big on strip clubs but I have done well a couple times....

The VIP charge will be one thing. That'll vary a little place to place. As for the girls and what they offer, that's all over the map, so unless you get in to specifics and names of the dancers, it'll be tough to pin down.

I know you are obviously invited TO the club, but I strongly suggest putting the effort in to get her outside of the club. especially if you have contact already

 

[topsin20]

I’ve been to Delilah’s a few times but it was many years ago. Had a good time but this was before I ever hobbied so a few lapdances with a hot chick was like a trip to the moon to me back then.

One time I got friendly with a cute blonde with big MMs and she coaxed me to take her to the VIP room. There was a flat charge for being there and I knew that up front. But then the waitress came over and suddenly I was expected to also pay for bottle service which was like another $80 or some shit. At that point I felt like I was being hustled so I balked and just took her back for a string of regular lapdances and got the hell out of there. Also it’s not really that private - you’re in one round couch with your girl and there are like 5 or six of them around you In one big open space. I don’t think you could really get too naughty in that setup.

On a later visit I got talking to another cutie pie and she told me there was a semi-vip option that I don’t remember what they called it, but it was cheaper and more private. It’s a bunch of enclosed booths that are upstairs and they are fully closed off from each other so you’re actually more secluded than the full VIP. I went with that with this girl and had a good time - no extras but real close contact the whole time. At one point a bouncer came by to check on us, so I it’s still not like you could go too far but that was my experience.

I’ll second @ASHP585 - you’d be better off meeting outside the club. Strip clubs exist to drain the wallets of guys who don’t realize they can get far more for less if they just do a bit more research. You’re already on this board, so you’re way ahead of me when I was going to places like Delilah’s.

 

[october11a]

Yeah I already botched it I think, and I'm just a lot more charming in person, but I don't have the kind of money to spend on that I don't think. Maybe I'll wait for a work bonus and make it a one time thing.


I may try to meet up outside of club but I don't think it's possible. I think I'm screwed all around I just wanted to see what kinda dmg it would be. 125 just to get in the room is pretty crazy, I get it but I feel like they'd get a lot more play at the club if they lowered that a little lol, hey what do I know, they are cleaning up so good for them.

Thanks so much everyone.

 

[october11a]

I definitely know she's just trying to get me there to drain my wallet she wasn't answering the dms much until I asked when she was working lol

 

[Speakeasy3006]

I went to the Manville location nearly every week a number of years ago. I would recommend looking at their instagram feed, they post the lineup and specials. I know today it's $50 off the 30 minute VIP. I would recommend tipping her on stage and asking her to come see you when she is off. When she asks for a private dance, and she will, that is when you ask what her price points are. I have used the line "I know you are worth it, but all I can spend is "X". You're not busy anyway, and you get $75 or $125 out of the room fee anyway. It worked a while back for me, however, you can't go during a busy time.

 

[Acods]

Did anybody go recently to Delilah’s Manville ? I am interested due to the potential high mileage in the vips.

 

[mimatch]

On top of the VIP charge you better be able to come up with 300BJ to 500FS. VIP is only for those who don't care if they drop 500 to 700 that day. I've done it many times and have a lot a great memories. Mostly over that now and just do lap dances and save the bigger money for amps. You aren't likely to see her outside the club unless you are a regular of hers. My fav takes me to a hotel for the afternoon with a bottle of wine but I pay 1000. Worth it. I do it 4 times a year with her.

 

[mimatch]

Most importantly for me anyway is that you specify BBBJ or whatever before heading to the vip. Don't go without knowing what you are getting. I'd say most will not do BBBJ unless you know them well. Some never. Best value is to play around at a strip club then head to an AMP for more.

 

[Speakeasy3006]

On top of the VIP charge you better be able to come up with 300BJ to 500FS. VIP is only for those who don't care if they drop 500 to 700 that day. I've done it many times and have a lot a great memories. Mostly over that now and just do lap dances and save the bigger money for amps. You aren't likely to see her outside the club unless you are a regular of hers. My fav takes me to a hotel for the afternoon with a bottle of wine but I pay 1000. Worth it. I do it 4 times a year with her.

If you're spending $300-$500 as a tip, you're with the wrong ladies. I usually did 30 minutes for $225 and tipped an extra $100. The girls got a total of $225. I always tell them up front what the tip will be for what I want.

 

[Loveyoulongtimetoday]

Don't waste your $$. Go to a massage joint instead.

 

[mimatch]

I know the strippers who will take 250 FS. I guess there is a market for them too. Not with me though.

3 hr at a hotel with a smokin hot blond half my age for 1000 is totally worth it. She likes it because it is basically the same money as the stripclub for less than half day work.