Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)

[Suck-I-Tuna]

New thing I am doing is once I match with a girl on the site I bypass the BS small talk... I send her a cut and paste message with how our first date is gonna go....I tell them we gonna meet up in the hotel, I will bring snacks & wine, we gonna hang out and fuck for 3 hours, approx, and we both vibe we will go to dinner afterwards if we like...I let them know that I have a lot of stamina and ensure they will be pleased and have a fun time...and if they interested to text me we can discuss the $$$ part offline.

Most will probably not be interested and that's fine by me...Most ignore the message, a few get pissed off and say they are not escorts... A few of them them text me right away and love the idea ....To me this saves a lot of time and aggravations, it cuts out the time wasters, girls looking for platonic, shopping trips, or the girls looking for a quick hit pump and dump...No need to beat around the push or try to finesse them as this is not a vanilla dating site... Right now I send out a bunch of these messages and got back more leads than I can handle at the moment...

 

[Perfecto]

New thing I am doing is once I match with a girl on the site I bypass the BS small talk... I send her a cut and paste message with how our first date is gonna go....I tell them we gonna meet up in the hotel, I will bring snacks & wine, we gonna hang out and fuck for 3 hours, approx, and we both vibe we will go to dinner afterwards if we like...I let them know that I have a lot of stamina and ensure they will be pleased and have a fun time...and if they interested to text me we can discuss the $$$ part offline.

Most will probably not be interested and that's fine by me...Most ignore the message, a few get pissed off and say they are not escorts... A few of them them text me right away and love the idea ....To me this saves a lot of time and aggravations, it cuts out the time wasters, girls looking for platonic, shopping trips, or the girls looking for a quick hit pump and dump...No need to beat around the push or try to finesse them as this is not a vanilla dating site... Right now I send out a bunch of these messages and got back more leads than I can handle at the moment...

That's a very forward/aggressive approach...I see why you might get cursed out a little bit...lol but if it cuts through the BS and saves you time and you have tons of leads...then that's all that matters. Some girls I have met ask when are we going to meet in the first conversation...I take a slightly different approach where I will get to know them over the next 4-5 days to a week (during that time I fucking several other girls). I am screening them for mental/emotional issues and consistency....while they are sharing pics and what they are into sexually and what they are looking for out of a relationship. I make it clear I'm looking for a sensual escape after work for roughly 2 hours with great conversation and emotional connection. I make it clear my need if ultra-discretion and tell them what I'm willing to invest for their time. If we agree...and I feel comfortable....I'll get a hotel room and we will meet. I treat them like a gentleman and give them respect....I'm not pushy to meet or sext at all. Most will do it on their own and ask when we can connect. It might take a little more time but this helps me feel comfortable and I have had nothing be great sessions....although I'm constantly narrowing down the group of ladies....so the ones that perform the best (in and outside of the bedroom) always stay in rotation and the ones that are just ok....usually get cut. It's like my own sexual farm system ;-). They are all vying and competing for the top spot in my rotation....whether they know it or not.

 

[qazuiop]

Vibes: Have you ever met a girl that posted a vibe? Frankly, they only disuade me.

 

[Businessman]

I found that pros in general are less likely to want to do rough sex ie bruises, facefucking, fingering, cum/squirt, etc. They just think how tired they will be after the session, whereas sa (the freaky ones) look forward to the above and praise you for it.

 

[Suck-I-Tuna]

I found that pros in general are less likely to want to do rough sex ie bruises, facefucking, fingering, cum/squirt, etc. They just think how tired they will be after the session, whereas sa (the freaky ones) look forward to the above and praise you for it.

I had one Chinese SB, who was very freaky had a lot of sexual stamina and enjoyed rough sex...I am ok with spanking them and such but can't really bring myself to seriously beat them or choke them, I guess its not really my thing...

 

[qazuiop]

I had one Chinese SB, who was very freaky had a lot of sexual stamina and enjoyed rough sex...I am ok with spanking them and such but can't really bring myself to seriously beat them or choke them, I guess its not really my thing...

One of mine LOVES being choked. Was not my thing. She asks me to do it. I watch her eyes she's having a great time.Then she texts me asking if I could get her closer to blacking out. Said she wants to get close and feel me coming in her while she's on the edge.....I spent a lot of time researching the art of choking. Its gone a long way - lots of girls love it and its more than just grabbing her throat.

 

[Nykftwaded123]

Does anyone know any spots in Manhattan you can take SBs to fuck besides hotels? I'm just looking for interesting places to do it. In Queens, I have brought my SBs to Korean karaoke rooms, and it was a fun time. They sell snacks and alcohol there so I'll typically bring them after a light dinner. Drink and sing some karaoke while groping and move on to bjs and fs after. It was kind of thrilling to do it outside of a hotel and I'd like to try something similar in Manhattan.

 

[tigreemodela]

One of mine LOVES being choked. Was not my thing. She asks me to do it. I watch her eyes she's having a great time.Then she texts me asking if I could get her closer to blacking out. Said she wants to get close and feel me coming in her while she's on the edge.....I spent a lot of time researching the art of choking. Its gone a long way - lots of girls love it and its more than just grabbing her throat.

I need to learn the art. Choking's not really my thing either but have an SB who loves intense hair pulling and choking, too. Seeing her eyes roll back in her head the moment I grip her neck is pretty fucking hot and it'd be cool to drive her crazier.

 

[Uniquelyme]

One of mine LOVES being choked. Was not my thing. She asks me to do it. I watch her eyes she's having a great time.Then she texts me asking if I could get her closer to blacking out. Said she wants to get close and feel me coming in her while she's on the edge.....I spent a lot of time researching the art of choking. Its gone a long way - lots of girls love it and its more than just grabbing her throat.

I need to learn the art. Choking's not really my thing either but have an SB who loves intense hair pulling and choking, too. Seeing her eyes roll back in her head the moment I grip her neck is pretty fucking hot and it'd be cool to drive her crazier.

Start spitting in their mouth. Try light slapping and see if they like it harder. Big ass girls i smack their ass while im drilling their box. When i'm real into it, i slap both ass cheeks using both my hands.

 

[이 회장님]

Does anyone know any spots in Manhattan you can take SBs to fuck besides hotels? I'm just looking for interesting places to do it. In Queens, I have brought my SBs to Korean karaoke rooms, and it was a fun time. They sell snacks and alcohol there so I'll typically bring them after a light dinner. Drink and sing some karaoke while groping and move on to bjs and fs after. It was kind of thrilling to do it outside of a hotel and I'd like to try something similar in Manhattan.

The Korean karaoke rooms in Manhattan are overpriced. The owners are also experiencing tight cash flows so they have told their staff to make the customers order more expensive drinks and food and their service has gone down. So not worth it in Manhattan.

 

[이 회장님]

Does anyone know any spots in Manhattan you can take SBs to fuck besides hotels? I'm just looking for interesting places to do it. In Queens, I have brought my SBs to Korean karaoke rooms, and it was a fun time. They sell snacks and alcohol there so I'll typically bring them after a light dinner. Drink and sing some karaoke while groping and move on to bjs and fs after. It was kind of thrilling to do it outside of a hotel and I'd like to try something similar in Manhattan.

Try two different places in Flushing.

Dongwon Sushi and Tuna (41-19 162nd St)
Ask for a private room. The waitress will not enter your room unless you ring the bell for service. It’s very loud here so she can give you a BBBJ while you’re waiting for your food. And the waitress will knock on your door and will not open it until you say so. I’ve gotten BBBJCIMs here a few times.

The fat chef in the back is the owner and the lady at the counter is the wife but no worries and enjoy.


Choice Screen Golf (42-02 215th Street 2nd Floor)
If you play golf then book a private room. The door has a small window. Use wet paper towels to block it. The staff will not visit you unless you press the bell for service. They have a large and comfortable sofa for your pleasure.

If you see a guy with a Lakers cap then that’s me. I’m either with a client, SB or amp girl but feel free and say hi.

 

[Nykftwaded123]

Try two different places in Flushing.

Dongwon Sushi and Tuna (41-19 162nd St)
Ask for a private room. The waitress will not enter your room unless you ring the bell for service. It’s very loud here so she can give you a BBBJ while you’re waiting for your food. And the waitress will knock on your door and will not open it until you say so. I’ve gotten BBBJCIMs here a few times.

The fat chef in the back is the owner and the lady at the counter is the wife but no worries and enjoy.


Choice Screen Golf (42-02 215th Street 2nd Floor)
If you play golf then book a private room. The door has a small window. Use wet paper towels to block it. The staff will not visit you unless you press the bell for service. They have a large and comfortable sofa for your pleasure.

If you see a guy with a Lakers cap then that’s me. I’m either with a client, SB or amp girl but feel free and say hi.

Amazing, thank you for the great intel as usual. I'll definitely say hi if I bump into you haha.

 

[qazuiop]

Try two different places in Flushing.

Dongwon Sushi and Tuna (41-19 162nd St)
Ask for a private room. The waitress will not enter your room unless you ring the bell for service. It’s very loud here so she can give you a BBBJ while you’re waiting for your food. And the waitress will knock on your door and will not open it until you say so. I’ve gotten BBBJCIMs here a few times.

The fat chef in the back is the owner and the lady at the counter is the wife but no worries and enjoy.


Choice Screen Golf (42-02 215th Street 2nd Floor)
If you play golf then book a private room. The door has a small window. Use wet paper towels to block it. The staff will not visit you unless you press the bell for service. They have a large and comfortable sofa for your pleasure.

If you see a guy with a Lakers cap then that’s me. I’m either with a client, SB or amp girl but feel free and say hi.

Interesting subject. My girl that likes to be choked has a thing for public sex as well. Any other ideas?

I once got a BJ in the changing room at J Crew.

 

[이 회장님]

Interesting subject. My girl that likes to be choked has a thing for public sex as well. Any other ideas?

I once got a BJ in the changing room at J Crew.

I’m sorry I don’t know other public places for sex in the city.

 

[VJLUTZ]

Does anyone know any spots in Manhattan you can take SBs to fuck besides hotels? I'm just looking for interesting places to do it. In Queens, I have brought my SBs to Korean karaoke rooms, and it was a fun time. They sell snacks and alcohol there so I'll typically bring them after a light dinner. Drink and sing some karaoke while groping and move on to bjs and fs after. It was kind of thrilling to do it outside of a hotel and I'd like to try something similar in Manhattan.

There is always the old fashioned option of fucking in a vehicle. I have done it in sedans (the worst), station wagons (not bad, but not many around these days), SUVs and vans (the best). Doing it anything other than a van can be a problem (especially in Manhattan). In the boonies (where I live), there are plenty of secluded spots to go to, especially at night. I never attempted any sex acts in a moving vehicle. You can also go to a park and find a secluded spot. Back when I was in college, there were many places on campus to fuck, including in the bushes (guessing most SBs would frown on that though). Lots of porn about people fucking in elevators too. Get creative.

 

[LuckyEagle]

Wow… you guys got some amazing experiences and stories. I been using SA for about two months now and so far I got nothing other than mainly just some small talk back and forth with several women. There was one lady who try to get me to give $100 donation for first time meetup. I said no and she just block me. Whatever…

I didn’t think it would be this hard…

 

[tigreemodela]

Wow… you guys got some amazing experiences and stories. I been using SA for about two months now and so far I got nothing other than mainly just some small talk back and forth with several women. There was one lady who try to get me to give $100 donation for first time meetup. I said no and she just block me. Whatever…

I didn’t think it would be this hard…

What's your approach? It's def work and some weeks can be slower, but it shouldn't be that hard. I cast a wide net basically just asking if they're into casual fun. If they respond, I almost immediately go for getting us off the app and chatting more through text, mainly logistics for a meetup

 

[LuckyEagle]

What's your approach? It's def work and some weeks can be slower, but it shouldn't be that hard. I cast a wide net basically just asking if they're into casual fun. If they respond, I almost immediately go for getting us off the app and chatting more through text, mainly logistics for a meetup

It is pretty much a similar approach to what you said. Sometimes I might drag the conversation too long I think. I try not to be too picky on picking women based upon on their pictures as well. Also, I think the other issue is maybe the population on where I live at even though I live in the city.

I don’t know but at least I am trying…

 

[Suck-I-Tuna]

Wow… you guys got some amazing experiences and stories. I been using SA for about two months now and so far I got nothing other than mainly just some small talk back and forth with several women. There was one lady who try to get me to give $100 donation for first time meetup. I said no and she just block me. Whatever…

I didn’t think it would be this hard…

It wasn't that hard for me to get started about 2 years ago...Cast a wide net and send out a bunch of messages...Keep in mind even the average looking or ugly checks get flooded with messages and most guys are not serious or time wasters...I have heard a lot of guys just get titillated and get off on making dirty talk with the girls with no intention of meeting, so think of it from their perspective you have to cut thru the noise...

Most conversations start with boring small talk and fizzle out, and lead nowhere the girls lose interest when they don't see $ in it for them...Just keep small talk to a minimum and let them know you looking for fun arrangement and are serious about meeting up soon, and ask for their cell # to discuss arrangements...Then negotiate PPM amount via text, meet them and fuck them...Then shampoo, rinse, repeat..

 

[eaglesfan689]

Hey guys, any tips for engaging with couples? I'm interested but a little nervous about legitimacy or getting ripped off since it's 2 of them and 1 of me.