Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)

[이 회장님]

I’ll do a quick five-minute phone call with the SB before meeting her and then a M&G over coffee or a beer.

It’s impossible to know who this SB is like over text. M&G for an hour gives you a chance to have a better idea about the SB and there were many times when the SB and I would just click and it became a regular date instead of a PPM.

 

[Nutopia1]

So I have met up with roughly 40 SB girls, and this is the 2nd time a girl has flaked out on me while in transit to meetup....So I coordinate a meetup with a Korean girl from SB, her photos look good but her video looks like shit...I asked for a selfie which she never sent (1st red flag) but the price was right and she was DTF, she seemed eager to meet and get that cash so I figured I would take a chance...Confirmed like 4 times, couple of days before, night before, morning off, and text her when I on the way, she is like kool send me room # when there...I get a hotel room thru Dayuse in Flushing even though its like 30 mins away because it is much cheaper and figured it would easier for her to get to since she lives in Flushing...Then 15 mins before our appointment says she will be there soon, she probably only like 5-10 mins away...then like 15, 30, 45 mins she not there, I am like WTF? Lolz...I thought maybe she doing girl shit and taking a long ass time to get ready, so text her are you close ? No response, so I call her once no answer, twice no answer...So I am like fuck this and I find an indie close by...Luckily the dayuse was cheap $70 +Tax (at Sky Hotel) so not big loss on that front just a big fucking waste of time...Probably some dude offered $100 more or whatever, I guess when you selling pussy there is unlimited supply of customers...If I did that to my customers I would be broke lolz...I guess they don't think Long term, I noticed most of the ones that act like that are flash in the pan, they pop on the site but don't last long...All good though, and part of the adventures of sugaring...

This is the exact reason why I insist on meet and greets and book any hotel on a day other than day the MG day .
As I tell the girts my number one reason for MG is not to see how pretty you are or to discuss terms ...it's to see if you are reliable in keeping appointments!

 

[LuckyEagle]

So far… I been using SA for about a week now. Most of the conversations with girls I had are like “hello” and “how are you”, but nothing really serious where we could meet and greet except this one girl. This girl is white and 18 and she has somewhat of a cute face but she looks thick from the pictures she showed. I asked if she can verified her age with photo id and she ask how generous I am before showing it. I asked what does she want and she said fun with support. I asked what would you do in return and reply with “honestly whatever you want” (with reason). She also said she lives around campus in a dorm. That’s the current conversation right now with this girl. I don’t about if this girl is serious or not based on she told me.

 

[Nutopia1]

So far… I been using SA for about a week now. Most of the conversations with girls I had are like “hello” and “how are you”, but nothing really serious where we could meet and greet except this one girl. This girl is white and 18 and she has somewhat of a cute face but she looks thick from the pictures she showed. I asked if she can verified her age with photo id and she ask how generous I am before showing it. I asked what does she want and she said fun with support. I asked what would you do in return and reply with “honestly whatever you want” (with reason). She also said she lives around campus in a dorm. That’s the current conversation right now with this girl. I don’t about if this girl is serious or not based on she told me.

18? Check her ID if she looks that young .

 

[Businessman]

So far… I been using SA for about a week now. Most of the conversations with girls I had are like “hello” and “how are you”, but nothing really serious where we could meet and greet except this one girl. This girl is white and 18 and she has somewhat of a cute face but she looks thick from the pictures she showed. I asked if she can verified her age with photo id and she ask how generous I am before showing it. I asked what does she want and she said fun with support. I asked what would you do in return and reply with “honestly whatever you want” (with reason). She also said she lives around campus in a dorm. That’s the current conversation right now with this girl. I don’t about if this girl is serious or not based on she told me.

nobody is serious until they get naked in a bed.
There will be a lot of flakes. I respect the ones that treat this like a job and have a strong work ethic

 

[이 회장님]

18? Check her ID if she looks that young .

I agree. Anyone that says she’s 18, check her ID. I don’t want fucking Chris Hansen saying, “Hi I’m Chris Hansen from To Catch a Predator, have a seat over there.”

All jokes aside, I only see women 21 and above.

 

[LuckyEagle]

I agree. Anyone that says she’s 18, check her ID. I don’t want fucking Chris Hanson saying, “Hi I’m Chris Hansen from To Catch a Predator, have a seat over there.”

All jokes aside, I only see women 21 and above.

Yeah… she said she will turn 19 in January. She asked how generous I will be which means how much $$$ I am giving her. I didn’t directly answer the question. I ask her other questions to see if she really is a college student or not.

 

[이 회장님]

Yeah… she said she will turn 19 in January. She asked how generous I will be which means how much $$$ I am giving her. I didn’t directly answer the question. I ask her other questions to see if she really is a college student or not.

The PPM amount depends on what you and her expectations are. I’d verify her age first before discussing this. Listen to your gut, good luck and hope it works out for you.

 

[LuckyEagle]

The PPM amount depends on what you and her expectations are. I’d verify her age first before discussing this. Listen to your gut, good luck and hope it works out for you.

I even asked what is she looking for but she never gave a clear response to my question. Half of our conversation is me just asking random questions to her and it is sort of going nowhere unless I spit out a number. She said she would do anything I want but with reason.

Honestly I shouldn’t get too frustrated about this.

 

[이 회장님]

I even asked what is she looking for but she never gave a clear response to my question. Half of our conversation is me just asking random questions to her and it is sort of going nowhere unless I spit out a number. She said she would do anything I want but with reason.

Honestly I shouldn’t get too frustrated about this.

I’ve had situations like this too where the girls are not being direct and clear.

If I were you, I would have a quick phone call with her and feel her out. If your gut tells you no then just move on to the next girl. There are plenty of college girls to see in the city.

 

[Suck-I-Tuna]

I even asked what is she looking for but she never gave a clear response to my question. Half of our conversation is me just asking random questions to her and it is sort of going nowhere unless I spit out a number. She said she would do anything I want but with reason.

Honestly I shouldn’t get too frustrated about this.

Probably she is too inexperienced or shy to say what she wants and is looking for someone to take the lead...I would just throw out a lowball number and see how she reacts...I usually offer $300 for 3 hours of fucking/hanging out at the hotel as my initial offer....Some guys may offer less, some may offer more it really depends what you comfortable with and what you can negotiate...The Lowest I have paid is $200 and the most I have paid is $600....

 

[Suck-I-Tuna]

so I cut this cut and paste message from a fairly average looking Asian chick on SB who claims to be a model and an actress


"I do One thing before we move forward with communication, I do get a lot of requests offering me the world and I don't want to be scammed of my time and energy. If you want we can meet for dinner and drinks and I expect a $500 gift for showing up and spending time with you and getting to know each other. Hopefully, you can understand that I need to know you are able to provide and treat me accordingly if we decide to move forward with the arrangement."


Needless to say I did not dignify this with an answer...Are some desperate simps out there actually paying $500 for a m&g ? Lolz

 

[VJLUTZ]

I even asked what is she looking for but she never gave a clear response to my question. Half of our conversation is me just asking random questions to her and it is sort of going nowhere unless I spit out a number. She said she would do anything I want but with reason..

If you ever had any negotiation training, the first thing they teach you is this: The person that says the number first loses. Or, at least, is at a disadvantage.

It sounds like she is telling you she is game. But a few tips:
1. Get her phone number and get off the Seeking site before talking numbers. They will kick you off if they find you negotiating on the site.
2. Don't give her anything until you see her in person (no SA gifts, gift cards or Zelle).
3. Don't give her anything major (besides maybe lunch) before you get her in the sack.
4. Check her ID before you do anything erotic. And don't meet in her dorm.
5. Keep any "support" to PPM.
6. Don't let it ramble on forever. Close the deal. Remember ABC: Always Be Closing!

It is very possible she is milking you. In fact, you should always assume that until you get some. But if this girl is really 18, she may be pretty naive herself. If she is "thick" then she may not be that experienced and willing to take a lot less than thinner girls. Start the bidding at 300, or even 200 if she seems insecure.

 

[timleecl]

so I cut this cut and paste message from a fairly average looking Asian chick on SB who claims to be a model and an actress


"I do One thing before we move forward with communication, I do get a lot of requests offering me the world and I don't want to be scammed of my time and energy. If you want we can meet for dinner and drinks and I expect a $500 gift for showing up and spending time with you and getting to know each other. Hopefully, you can understand that I need to know you are able to provide and treat me accordingly if we decide to move forward with the arrangement."


Needless to say I did not dignify this with an answer...Are some desperate simps out there actually paying $500 for a m&g ? Lolz

Former SB told me she got $500 for just dinner with a guy, so I asked why not keep doing that instead of banging me? haha

She explained the guy was disgustingly morbidly obese, poor hygiene, and she was humiliated being seen in public w him. Plus he was obviously building up to trying to bang her

Another SB told me she got paid for dinners but the dudes were so socially awkward and inept it wasn't worth the aggravation. Rather do the deed, have some fun, collect their ppm, and move on.

 

[VJLUTZ]

Another SB told me she got paid for dinners but the dudes were so socially awkward and inept it wasn't worth the aggravation. Rather do the deed, have some fun, collect their ppm, and move on.

You can't really blame the women here. They are optimizing their outcomes. Doing the least for the most. It's human nature. It's the fault of the Simps that let them get away with it.

The problem is that it ruins it for the rest of us.

 

[이 회장님]

There are simps all over the amp, room salon, piano bar and SB world. Many of them are old, fat, boring, insecure, have low self esteem and no sense of humor so the only thing they can bring to the table is money. Let it be.

I recommend focusing on yourself by making her like you more than the others that she’s been talking to and not think about what others (especially the simps) are doing.

 

[Businessman]

so I cut this cut and paste message from a fairly average looking Asian chick on SB who claims to be a model and an actress


"I do One thing before we move forward with communication, I do get a lot of requests offering me the world and I don't want to be scammed of my time and energy. If you want we can meet for dinner and drinks and I expect a $500 gift for showing up and spending time with you and getting to know each other. Hopefully, you can understand that I need to know you are able to provide and treat me accordingly if we decide to move forward with the arrangement."


Needless to say I did not dignify this with an answer...Are some desperate simps out there actually paying $500 for a m&g ? Lolz

"Sorry I cannot do that, no $ exchanged without intimacy. I find you extremely attractive, let me know if your circumstances change"

 

[didi88]

"Sorry I cannot do that, no $ exchanged without intimacy. I find you extremely attractive, let me know if your circumstances change"

I think this is a good way to put it. Straight to the point but polite and leaving options open.There are some girls who will lower their expectations once reality sets in and they realize they’re delusional

 

[InfiniteKpop2]

I agreed especially those that wants to only spend time with you and expect 5bills.
For SDs that is doing that you making it harder for most of us that don’t have billions in our bank accounts.
I really like all the tips given on this thread . I have an M&G tonight and I am not going bring up $$$ first !

 

[Nutopia1]

I agreed especially those that wants to only spend time with you and expect 5bills.
For SDs that is doing that you making it harder for most of us that don’t have billions in our bank accounts.
I really like all the tips given on this thread . I have an M&G tonight and I am not going bring up $$$ first !

I don't go to MG unless $ has been agreed via text .
Good luck.