Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)

[Suck-I-Tuna]

What are some of your strategies to maximizing credits on Secret Benefits?

Here are some of the strategies I use.
*Check out their verification video to see how they really look like
*If I am unsure about a girl I send a like and request photos to let her know I am interested, to see if she messages me to ensure I will get a response.
*I will use a credit if I really like the girl

But even then it seems like the credits get wasted pretty easily because you get a response initially many times, then the girl ghosts you....Or the girls are just sending the same messages to hundreds on guys to see who responds, but it doesn't cost them anything...

SA still is the best site in my opinion for this, but SB has a lot of girls that are not on SA so I use is as a backup resource...

 

[TIskier]

What are some of your strategies to maximizing credits on Secret Benefits?

Here are some of the strategies I use.
*Check out their verification video to see how they really look like
*If I am unsure about a girl I send a like and request photos to let her know I am interested, to see if she messages me to ensure I will get a response.
*I will use a credit if I really like the girl

But even then it seems like the credits get wasted pretty easily because you get a response initially many times, then the girl ghosts you....Or the girls are just sending the same messages to hundreds on guys to see who responds, but it doesn't cost them anything...

SA still is the best site in my opinion for this, but SB has a lot of girls that are not on SA so I use is as a backup resource...

SB seems like a scam to me. I hate the credit system.

 

[Businessman]

Sugar daddy websites, seeking arrangement, seeking benefits, or sugar daddy meet - Most came from seeking arrangement which is also the most popular of the sites, sign for 1 month trial and check it out...

Can you link the free 1 month trail if you happen to see it? I never see full month, only reduced pricing

 

[Suck-I-Tuna]

Can you link the free 1 month trail if you happen to see it? I never see full month, only reduced pricing

Not sure, I think on SA it's $109 for 30 days, or a little less $289 for 90 days? then sometimes if you cancel they try to get you come back with discount but never seen a discount more than 15% not sure....
For those that want to try SB site for cheaper just to try it out there is SDM which has less girls on there but is like 1/3 of the price of SA, think it's $140 for 90 days or something like that...

 

[Businessman]

Not sure, I think on SA it's $109 for 30 days, or a little less $289 for 90 days? then sometimes if you cancel they try to get you come back with discount but never seen a discount more than 15% not sure....
For those that want to try SB site for cheaper just to try it out there is SDM which has less girls on there but is like 1/3 of the price of SA, think it's $140 for 90 days or something like that...

I see what you mean. Yea I have seen 20-33% discounts. Share here if you see the link. Everyone can use it to subscribe.

 

[Suck-I-Tuna]

I see what you mean. Yea I have seen 20-33% discounts. Share here if you see the link. Everyone can use it to subscribe.

Definitely a 33% discount ain't bad, will keep an eye out

 

[Suck-I-Tuna]

Just curious the average demographic of a SD is...like age and relationship status...Like I am 42 in a relationship but not married...1 girl told me that most of the guys she sees are 30-40, single and just want NSA sex...Another girl I talked to her clientele is like 60-80 (but granted this was Florida)...In my mind I think the average SD would be like in their 50's and married, but I could be wrong...

 

[이 회장님]

Just curious the average demographic of a SD is...like age and relationship status...Like I am 42 in a relationship but not married...1 girl told me that most of the guys she sees are 30-40, single and just want NSA sex...Another girl I talked to her clientele is like 60-80 (but granted this was Florida)...In my mind I think the average SD would be like in their 50's and married, but I could be wrong...

Very good question.

Based on my conversations with SBs and other SDs, the demographic of a SD is wide open. I think most men (regardless of their age or relationship status) are in the site.

For Japanese Piano Bars, the men are around 80% Japanese and 20% Jewish. Married and early 50s to late 60s. Mostly architects, accountants, attorneys, developers and doctors.

For Korean Room Salons, the men are around 90% Korean between early 40s to late 60s and the other 10% are Chinese men in their 20s and 30s.

Most of the Korean customers are also architects, accountants, attorneys, developers and doctors. And most of the young Chinese customers have no job and are just rich (born with a silver spoon).

 

[TIskier]

I’m waiting for my tiny Mexican SB right now. She’s cute as hell and fun but always very fucking late ….. uggghhh its the main reason I rarely see her vs. the Asians in my rotation. I hate tardiness.

 

[Whizzard]

Very good question.

Based on my conversations with SBs and other SDs, the demographic of a SD is wide open. I think most men (regardless of their age or relationship status) are in the site.

For Japanese Piano Bars, the men are around 80% Japanese and 20% Jewish. Married and early 50s to late 60s. Mostly architects, accountants, attorneys, developers and doctors.

For Korean Room Salons, the men are around 90% Korean between early 40s to late 60s and the other 10% are Chinese men in their 20s and 30s.

Most of the Korean customers are also architects, accountants, attorneys, developers and doctors. And most of the young Chinese customers have no job and are just rich (born with a silver spoon).

Ah yes… “born with a silver spoon” or as a friend used to call it… “the lucky sperm club”

 

[Uniquelyme]

I’m waiting for my tiny Mexican SB right now. She’s cute as hell and fun but always very fucking late ….. uggghhh its the main reason I rarely see her vs. the Asians in my rotation. I hate tardiness.

Is she in Queens? Tats ? If so where, lol

 

[TIskier]

Is she in Queens? Tats ? If so where, lol

No tats. Lives in Bx

 

[이 회장님]

Now I know what “tats” mean. I had to Google it. Learn new words everyday and I’m getting old too. lol

 

[Suck-I-Tuna]

I’m waiting for my tiny Mexican SB right now. She’s cute as hell and fun but always very fucking late ….. uggghhh its the main reason I rarely see her vs. the Asians in my rotation. I hate tardiness.

It's LT ("Latina Time") add an hour buffer, tell her to meet you an hour earlier than when you want to actually meet and you should be good...

 

[timleecl]

Sharing my experience from my 2+ years sugaring:

Context:

• I used to be pretty active at AMPs, but pretty much stopped once I found SA. A few random AMP visits when my rotation are all on their period haha
• Since 2021, hooked up with dozens of SBs 100% from SA (sample size, not trying to "brag,")
• I'm married so never share face pics, can only meetup daytimes, and generally need discreet. I'm sure this limits my pool of candidates
• I'm also damn picky, really want young (early 20s) petite spinner types, and other sexual preferences that further limit my pool of candidates

Approach:

• I send out tons of messages on SA, cast wide net approach
• When she responds, move immediately to google voice text
• My text game is poor, try a few jokes but otherwise straight to business
• If we agree on ppm amount range and other details, MG at cafe. I'll buy coffee, no food
• This is vibe check, not for sex, never agree pay for this MG, but if I'm attracted and I want close I give $100 at end
• Some girls want to go straight to hotel without coffee or right after. They're ok to have in the rotation, but def more jaded and escort vibe. Not the IRL mistress vibe I'm looking for on SA
• Schedule hotel date, if sex is good continue until no good. If sex is bad, don't ghost, try to be a gentleman and let her know not working out, firm and brief.

Stats:

• Avg ppm for me is 500
• I've gone as high as $1k, almost never worth it (one super hot petite 19yo was worth it tho haha)
• See a main regularly, and 3-4 backups randomly when main is on P or being flaky
• Since I target very young ladies, they can be very unreliable of flaky. But since they suite my tastes, I tolerate it

Overall, it's more expensive and can be time-consuming. And the flakiness of my young SBs can be aggravating. But I still prefer to AMPs for now, just my $0.02

Much of this is probably repetitive of info shared by others, just sharing my whole picture for anyone interested

Good luck all

 

[Uniquelyme]

Sharing my experience from my 2+ years sugaring:

Context:

• I used to be pretty active at AMPs, but pretty much stopped once I found SA. A few random AMP visits when my rotation are all on their period haha
• Since 2021, hooked up with dozens of SBs 100% from SA (sample size, not trying to "brag,")
• I'm married so never share face pics, can only meetup daytimes, and generally need discreet. I'm sure this limits my pool of candidates
• I'm also damn picky, really want young (early 20s) petite spinner types, and other sexual preferences that further limit my pool of candidates

Approach:

• I send out tons of messages on SA, cast wide net approach
• When she responds, move immediately to google voice text
• My text game is poor, try a few jokes but otherwise straight to business
• If we agree on ppm amount range and other details, MG at cafe. I'll buy coffee, no food
• This is vibe check, not for sex, never agree pay for this MG, but if I'm attracted and I want close I give $100 at end
• Some girls want to go straight to hotel without coffee or right after. They're ok to have in the rotation, but def more jaded and escort vibe. Not the IRL mistress vibe I'm looking for on SA
• Schedule hotel date, if sex is good continue until no good. If sex is bad, don't ghost, try to be a gentleman and let her know not working out, firm and brief.

Stats:

• Avg ppm for me is 500
• I've gone as high as $1k, almost never worth it (one super hot petite 19yo was worth it tho haha)
• See a main regularly, and 3-4 backups randomly when main is on P or being flaky
• Since I target very young ladies, they can be very unreliable of flaky. But since they suite my tastes, I tolerate it

Overall, it's more expensive and can be time-consuming. And the flakiness of my young SBs can be aggravating. But I still prefer to AMPs for now, just my $0.02

Much of this is probably repetitive of info shared by others, just sharing my whole picture for anyone interested

Good luck all

Don't give them any money to meet not even a $0.01. $500 & up hoping they are legit 9+'s.

 

[timleecl]

Don't give them any money to meet not even a $0.01. $500 & up hoping they are legit 9+'s.

I haven't tested whether the $100 is worth it or not. But since my pool of candidates is so limited, I hate to let a good one get away for just $100

I suppose they're 9s to me haha. In the beginning I had a few in the 300-400 range, I def prefer what I'm finding 500+

 

[didi88]

If we agree on ppm amount range and other details, MG at cafe. I'll buy coffee, no food. This is vibe check, not for sex, never agree pay for this MG, but if I'm attracted and I want close I give $100 at end

I’ve done this from time to time, but like you, only at the end of M&G and with someone I really want to “lock in”. There is no expectation of payment on her part

 

[timleecl]

I’ve done this from time to time, but like you, only at the end of M&G and with someone I really want to “lock in”. There is no expectation of payment on her part

Same. If they demand or even ask for MG payment, I usually politely decline and block

 

[이 회장님]

I’ll do M&G over drinks. I want to feel them out and see if she’s worth the time and money or not. You can tell within the hour if she is. Worst case, I pay for the drinks, thank her for her time and I go to an amp because I have blue balls. lol