Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)

[BestTwitterer]

Did she ask for it or did you volunteer it?

I volunteered. I do it with the ones who I like as an incentive. Rarely has it not put me in a better situation down the road.
In this particular case, I selected the place and time and controlled the length of our meeting. We could have ventured elsewhere but I chose not to instead setting expectations. Will it work? Who knows but I feel good about the experience. And that’s what is important both now and later.

 

[VJLUTZ]

My experiences overwhelming aligned with uniquelyme (had 1-2 not care about $ just want to fuck).

They do exist. I always given my SBs their sugar, but had three experiences where I probably could have avoided it:
1. Went to one woman's house who was marginally acceptable (she was probably 10 years older than she claimed). I was edging toward an exit when she opened up her bathrobe (revealing everything) and also dropped her price to 1. I probably could have bartered her down to 0 as she was clearly horny and lonely, but figured: what the heck? Even with that, I did not repeat. I got what I came for, but also got her fuking life story.
2. Met one SB at a motel. She did not ask for her sugar first and we just started going at it. As we were leaving, I had to reminder her to take her sugar. She very likely would have left without it. Even so, it would not have been "free" as I still had to pay for the room. Had one other one who only remembered to ask for her sugar right after a BBBJ.
3. Pre-pandemic, I was trading messages with this one girl who hinted that she would meet for free. She was 19 and claimed to have a "daddy complex". Pretty sure she was legit and not a scammer. Despite that, I decided not to pursue. Why? Mostly she seemed too young & immature and lived too far away. On one hand, I sometimes regret not pursing it. On the other hand, lots could have gone wrong and I likely dodged a bullet. I have since looked for her on SA and have not seen her again. Probably a good thing.

 

[VJLUTZ]

I volunteered. I do it with the ones who I like as an incentive. Rarely has it not put me in a better situation down the road.

I absolutely concur. If you think she might be a long-term keeper, it is a good policy to be generous, especially at the start. But not stupidly generous. If she is marginal, then by all means drive a hard bargain (as it were).

 

[Flloydgondolli]

As I said before - do what you’re comfortable with. My 28 year old is in a very sweet spot for me personally. Accommodates my time, meets all my expectations, only had 2 hard nos that I wish were soft limits but we’ve discussed and I don’t pursue. That being said if she did them for my birthday I’d be a very happy man. She basically has told Me I’m the only guy she feels comfortable enough with to do the stuff we’re doing. Nothing crazy heavy in terms of BDSM or rope play, but definitely kink oriented with her letting me run the show. Also I’ve never had an SB with this high a sex drive who is literally interested in nothing more than the fun. No food, drinks, dates, etc. straight up get to her place foreplay, fuck, recharge, repeat for 3.5-4 hours. Definitely a FWB dynamic where it is marginally transactional if at all. At the gift I mentioned prorated out it doesn’t get much better than that.

Do what works for you, find a girl that checks most, if not all, the boxes. Time and patience are key.

 

[InfiniteKpop2]

NOOB SA question.
why do all the SB la wants to exchange details of the arrangement outside of SA over another messaging app?

Does SA take a cut of the arrangement or it’s against the rules ?

 

[BestTwitterer]

NOOB SA question.
why do all the SB la wants to exchange details of the arrangement outside of SA over another messaging app?

Does SA take a cut of the arrangement or it’s against the rules ?

There’s a couple of reasons:
1. They are selling videos or pics and don’t want to discuss it on SA as they’d be tossed.
2. There’s SA terminology that is prohibited that can get you possibly banned - PPM or FWB. Even discussing sex for money can get you tossed.
3. SA doesn’t have an app. Some think it’s easier to chat elsewhere.

 

[VJLUTZ]

why do all the SB la wants to exchange details of the arrangement outside of SA over another messaging app?

I think @BestTwitterer had a good answer. But another reason is that you often want to get the girl's contact info ASAP for future reference. This is a point I made in a previous post. Sometimes their profiles will disappear off SA without warning. If that happens, and you were at all interested, you will have no way to contact them after that.

 

[InfiniteKpop2]

I think @BestTwitterer had a good answer. But another reason is that you often want to get the girl's contact info ASAP for future reference. This is a point I made in a previous post. Sometimes their profiles will disappear off SA without warning. If that happens, and you were at all interested, you will have no way to contact them after that.

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I read the thread tons of information..
what I got out of is meet for coffee and let your SB bring up the allowance.
Have a range in mind, give her more if your SB can host.
what is the current going range?
( It can go from 250 to 1k)

anything I missed?

 

[TIskier]

Helpful
I read the thread tons of information..
what I got out of is meet for coffee and let your SB bring up the allowance.
Have a range in mind, give her more if your SB can host.
what is the current going range?
( It can go from 250 to 1k)

anything I missed?

I only strike up convos with women that I initially feel would be worth about 500. They need to be of a certain type that is unavailable or difficult to find through other less expensive means. Young 19-20, ethnically rare in the game (Tibetan, Viet, Peruvian etc) , or rare body type (ie- naturally busty Asian or skinny Latina).

 

[이 회장님]

Helpful
I read the thread tons of information..
what I got out of is meet for coffee and let your SB bring up the allowance.
Have a range in mind, give her more if your SB can host.
what is the current going range?
( It can go from 250 to 1k)

anything I missed?

You can also call the SB and have a quick conversation with her and get a feel for her before meeting her.

 

[VJLUTZ]

Helpful
I read the thread tons of information..
what I got out of is meet for coffee and let your SB bring up the allowance.
Have a range in mind, give her more if your SB can host.
what is the current going range?
( It can go from 250 to 1k)

anything I missed?

Wow. Over 1250 posts on this thread. Didn't realize it only boiled down to 4 bullet points. I guess we can stop now.

 

[BestTwitterer]

Helpful
I read the thread tons of information..
what I got out of is meet for coffee and let your SB bring up the allowance.
Have a range in mind, give her more if your SB can host.
what is the current going range?
( It can go from 250 to 1k)

anything I missed?

Going range from what we’ll give as an allowance is something each of us needs to decide. Don’t let another including me tell you what you should spend. And every location has some market differences. For instance, Manhattan girls may start at 4 or 5 and go upwards. Maybe someone in the suburbs might be slightly or even significantly less. And remember what they ask isn’t necessarily what you need to agree to in the end. Spend how you see fit as you earned it and should enjoy it.

 

[InfiniteKpop2]

Going range from what we’ll give as an allowance is something each of us needs to decide. Don’t let another including me tell you what you should spend. And every location has some market differences. For instance, Manhattan girls may start at 4 or 5 and go upwards. Maybe someone in the suburbs might be slightly or even significantly less. And remember what they ask isn’t necessarily what you need to agree to in the end. Spend how you see fit as you earned it and should enjoy it.

God bless your heart .. this is a really good advice.

 

[Uniquelyme]

There’s a couple of reasons:
1. They are selling videos or pics and don’t want to discuss it on SA as they’d be tossed.
2. There’s SA terminology that is prohibited that can get you possibly banned - PPM or FWB. Even discussing sex for money can get you tossed.
3. SA doesn’t have an app. Some think it’s easier to chat elsewhere.

SA does have an app still for android.

I hope you don't get ubers for girls when you aren't with them. The day after the sb i saw for 11 hours which i had fun and smashed her three times. Asked me fot an uber the next day to her friends house. After saying that she had a nice time. She got me fucked up. No other sb asked me for this. I left her on read didn't respond. Had a long term sb that told me on SD paid for her ubers. One day we went in the uber down the block cause she said parking was tough and she didnt want me to pay for parking or look long for it. He gave her $500+ and i gave her $300 and did every acros i wanted to do. Make it make sense is how i view messing with sbs..

 

[ChinatownVertigo]

Friends House?

 

[InfiniteKpop2]

Inflation is hot! We are driving prices up and up.
800 once a week seems to be the norm now .
, is this what you all are experiencing?

 

[Michael_Choo]

I hope you don't get ubers for girls when you aren't with them.

All roads lead to Rome and all pussy lead to your wallet, whether they're from hobby or your SO. Once you have enough experience in either hobbying/ppm or relationships or both, you'll know the good ones, so hold onto those. I have one 9 overall SB I see every few months. 5 bills per is kinda high but she doesn't ask for anything else. (She tried initially but I ignored it, setting a precedent.)

 

[Uniquelyme]

All roads lead to Rome and all pussy lead to your wallet, whether they're from hobby or your SO. Once you have enough experience in either hobbying/ppm or relationships or both, you'll know the good ones, so hold onto those. I have one 9 overall SB I see every few months. 5 bills per is kinda high but she doesn't ask for anything else. (She tried initially but I ignored it, setting a precedent.)

You're right but you can control how they act to a point. This chick now knows not to ask me for stupid shit when i aint around. Ask that guy who overpays to get you an uber.

 

[Nutopia1]

Inflation is hot! We are driving prices up and up.
800 once a week seems to be the norm now .
, is this what you all are experiencing?

Yes ..

 

[이 회장님]

Inflation is hot! We are driving prices up and up.
800 once a week seems to be the norm now .
, is this what you all are experiencing?

For a hot girl between the ages of 21 to 25 in the city, then yes, that is the going rate.

There are many rich men in SA, Japanese Piano Bar World, Korean Room Salon World and Amp World. They can afford to throw money like the Yankees and Mets.