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Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)
- Thread starter VJLUTZ
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I’m 46 and I have a lot of success with women between the ages of 25 to 30. These girls are mature, have a job, have their shit together and just need extra cash. Many of them don’t ask for payment but I still give them money because they are looking for a relationship.
It is very time-consuming and you will need to browse through hundreds of women but for me, it’s been worth it.
It is very time-consuming and you will need to browse through hundreds of women but for me, it’s been worth it.
It's not that simple.
I had the subscription twice but it didn't work out so well.
Admittedly I only messaged the extremely hot ones 18-25, and I am not the type that will send bunches of messages with all kinds of flattery. Not a sweet talker.
I am very much used to providers, and I mostly treated SA like the way I would handle booking an Indy. So I completely put my lack of success on me and my ways.
But even so, like the Chairman said, it takes a lot of time and work.
And even then, I will assume many guys here are making minor to considerable concessions on their expectations. I would imagine guys with "the gift of gab" (which is not me at all) would do well on SA in the same manner that they would do well in a bar or club (where they may also be making some concessions on their expectations).
Also, many of these girls on SA have high expectations for a guy's looks and age. That absolutely comes into play as well. So it's not like the hot 20 y/os will just be jumping into the boat like hungry fish.
I had the subscription twice but it didn't work out so well.
Admittedly I only messaged the extremely hot ones 18-25, and I am not the type that will send bunches of messages with all kinds of flattery. Not a sweet talker.
I am very much used to providers, and I mostly treated SA like the way I would handle booking an Indy. So I completely put my lack of success on me and my ways.
But even so, like the Chairman said, it takes a lot of time and work.
And even then, I will assume many guys here are making minor to considerable concessions on their expectations. I would imagine guys with "the gift of gab" (which is not me at all) would do well on SA in the same manner that they would do well in a bar or club (where they may also be making some concessions on their expectations).
Also, many of these girls on SA have high expectations for a guy's looks and age. That absolutely comes into play as well. So it's not like the hot 20 y/os will just be jumping into the boat like hungry fish.
I've only dabbled in this, and my experience matched. its way too time consuming and frustrating for me to chase after these girls as compared to just calling a high end agency or indie. I dont have 2 weeks to invest trying to get some girl interested. I see 2-3 girls a week right now. If i was doing it this way, i would have absolutely no free time (to work).
Have a “date tonight” with a hottie , I rejoined a week ago, for shits and giggles. Off the bat got a couple numbers all down to fuck, reasonable allowance requests; I’m not the best looking guy out there but I’m also not the worst looking one either lol. Carry yourself with confidence! Having problem finding/booking hotels in midtown. Fuck these guys want $300 and up for a room. I don’t want to bring chicks to my mongering motel it’s a 2 star shithole but does the deed lol, also don’t to appear to cheap. Lots of pussy out there just gotta go out there and shoot your shot worst thing they can do is block you.
To me seeking/the SB scene is a VERY nuanced mixture of looking for an Indy and trying to pick up a girl. Search criteria allows you to do a MASSIVE scan - you can filter out the girls that only want platonic or online. It’s very similar to TER in that sense. And just like searching on there there will be good hits and bad ones. Took me about 3 weeks to find my latest connection but so far seems very much worth it. If you keep it light and tell them your requirements/restrictions/expectations chances are you’ll find someone in your wheelhouse.
My current SB that I found on SA is a 24 yo hottie and I see her 1-2 times a week for a monthly allowance. She’s a rarity and money isn’t the main driver for her. She’s pretty picky as well. Each date is 5-12 hours and she now hosts. Started off with hotels. She’s newish to NYC so been going to some semi expensive restaurants. Luckily, my monthly expense has stayed under 2.5k total. While not cheap as AMPs, I feel like I’m getting my bang for the buck.
I had a great experience with a young central American (by heritage, American by birth) SB who was EXACTLY who she said she was (in appearance and attitude). Tight, young body. Willingness to provide just about everything we discussed (I kinda sprang one on her and she asked if that’s what I wanted and I simply nodded, went uh huh and she went at it). We’ve continued chatting and she definitely seems game for more fun, and now that we’ve had the initial meeting out of the way, I think we can kind of take things to the next level. All she asked for was a gift which I provided and she hasn’t asked for anything else yet. Might have gotten EXTREMELY lucky here, next few meeting will tell.
Well this thread made me do it. Been thinking about the SD/SB route for a while now and jumped in today. Signed up for a premium membership on SA and have been on the site for 8 hours now. Verdict? Holy shit!
Fits of all this thread has been a wealth of information. Without its advice I would not have had the near the success. Yes there have been a few obvious scammers. Immediately block and delete the convo to keep things clean. One girl wanted $ for the initial meetup! No thanks, see ya. BUT there are tons of legit women on there looking to get down. Have 3 meetups Friday to see if we are compatible! Granted money has not been discussed yet, per thread tip waiting on the women to bring it up. I guess there’s the chance they all have GPS but we will see. I’m a fairly decent looking guy with some people skills, so has been fun so far but might need to pause my profile for fears of getting overwhelmed if Friday goes well. I’ll keep you up to date.
Fits of all this thread has been a wealth of information. Without its advice I would not have had the near the success. Yes there have been a few obvious scammers. Immediately block and delete the convo to keep things clean. One girl wanted $ for the initial meetup! No thanks, see ya. BUT there are tons of legit women on there looking to get down. Have 3 meetups Friday to see if we are compatible! Granted money has not been discussed yet, per thread tip waiting on the women to bring it up. I guess there’s the chance they all have GPS but we will see. I’m a fairly decent looking guy with some people skills, so has been fun so far but might need to pause my profile for fears of getting overwhelmed if Friday goes well. I’ll keep you up to date.