If you’re married, you need to be extra careful on SA. Never post a real photo on the site, just one that looks somewhat like you. Also, if they ask for photos in email or text, do not send. Just explain you’re married and most will understand. If they keep insisting, move on to the next girl. You never know where photos will wind up
Also never give them any personal info, like your real name, address, place of business, etc. Best to have fake name and a cover story about your life. Most don’t care, they just want the $$ anyway. But it’s better to be safe and discreet , just like in the hobby