Seeing a provider that's into drugs

[chrisdaco69]

Will any of you guys see a provider who is heavy into drugs? I'm not trying to offend anybody..I apologize if this offends anybody.

 

[Lotsofpapertowels]

I wouldn't. You never know if the $ is being watched, and by whom. I've heard horror stories of drug dealers waiting inside closets and stuff like that. Just my two cents.

 

[ASHP585]

I am not sure why anybody would do that knowingly unless they also participate in that world.....

 

[East Lake II]

Nope, never. Anyone that’s addicted to drugs, gambling … is dangerous. They are not rational and not in control of their actions. Run for the hills.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Um....yeah.
It's a pretty common thing with the younger American providers.
I've known many over the decades.
Just because they do it doesn't mean it has to affect you in any way -- other than dealing with occasional flaky sessions and behavior.
And no, does not mean the client is participating.

 

[ASHP585]

Um....yeah.
It's a pretty common thing with the younger American providers.
Just because they do it doesn't mean it has to affect you in any way -- other than dealing with occasional flaky sessions and behavior.

I say with confidence, that if somebody is HEAVY in to drugs and not just taking some random ski trips, it will like impact the session and certainly increase the odds that things don't go as planned...

To relate it to the real world....I own a business. I know that addicts can typically be very hard workers for a buck, but inconsistency, erratic actions, and presentation all stop me from ever having any around. Where as, the guy who likes to let loose a little from Friday night to Sunday morning, I just don't depend on during those times....Lol

 

[chrisdaco69]

I truly like all your responses and agree with you all. This topic is interesting and is not meant to anyone specific.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

I say with confidence, that if somebody is HEAVY in to drugs and not just taking some random ski trips, it will like impact the session and certainly increase the odds that things don't go as planned...

To relate it to the real world....I own a business. I know that addicts can typically be very hard workers for a buck, but inconsistency, erratic actions, and presentation all stop me from ever having any around. Where as, the guy who likes to let loose a little from Friday night to Sunday morning, I just don't depend on during those times....Lol

Don't get me wrong.
I am not saying I make a point of seeing druggies.
I don't.
Just that over many, many years and from time to time, I see a pretty, younger American girl and it turns out she is a druggie.
I also stated that I have dealt with flaky behavior with these types of girls -- so I do not believe I have "sugar coated" anything. (pun may or may not be intended)

 

[onceagain]

Define "drugs"? Weed? Coke?

 

[maxdavis]

Be careful out there, this hobby itself has many risks already. People tend to take a lot more risks when they are high or getting high. Speaking for myself I avoid, to each his own though.

 

[xxxooz]

I truly like all your responses and agree with you all. This topic is interesting and is not meant to anyone specific.

I truly like all your responses and agree with you all. This topic is interesting and is not meant to anyone specific.

Chris.. why are you asking?..are you involved with an atf or provider who is addicted?.. if so what is she addicted to?… If she’s on the needle there are major health concerns ..if not major emotional issues.. best advice is run away… if not that then “tough love” and a brutal relationship ..good luck pal… it’s hard enough just being with a “normal” provider let alone an addicted one…easier to find another ATF… IMHO..
best wishes
Xooz

 

[Got2be]

Nope, never. Anyone that’s addicted to drugs, gambling … is dangerous. They are not rational and not in control of their actions. Run for the hills.

I guess who don’t know anyone whose addicted… it’s a terrible disease .. and I would never ever run for the hills

 

[ASHP585]

I guess who don’t know anyone whose addicted… it’s a terrible disease .. and I would never ever run for the hills

I have people in my family who deal with substance abuse issues. One who lives with me. Alcohol. Given the nature of this business, and the fact that nobody can change unless they want to change and are willing to start changing their choices and traveling that path, it’s better to leave it alone. Otherwise, it is undue frustration, deception, anger, and heartache that only one person can control, and it ain’t you.

 

[chrisdaco69]

xxx, sorry for the delay. No, i'm not involved in any type of relationship. I wanted to see a provider i liked, but my bud told me the girl does drugs and was in rehab. She's clean now. I wasn't sure if is safe, that's all. I don't judge anybody with anything they do or not do with their lives. I just want to make sure, i'm safe. I'm no saint by all means.

 

[chrisdaco69]

If it was only weed, I wouldn't be asking the question. I don't do drugs, but i know some help people who's having health issues. I grew up around friends and family who did drugs and never judged them or anybody else. We are human beings and have choices to make..

 

[24returns]

I prefer not to see a provider that does or is on drugs. I think some people react differently when they do drugs and have different moods. I've had a couple of girls in a spa do coke in front of me. I've been with providers and non providers who were on drugs. Ironically i have not had a bad time with someone on drugs.

 

[livinthedream]

wwyd if you were seeing a provider who uses and things went south, with LE? then, its possible both of you catch charges.

 

[chrisdaco69]

I didn't think about that aspect. You have a point.

 

[westonsecret]

I would not. Over my years (old craigslist/backpage era) had some sessions with several independents. Realized immediately they were into drugs. Their head was not into the game, "cloudy", and made for a bad session. Motel was more seedy than preferred. I also realized they let the customer choose about using/not using protection during intercourse. I am sure customers liked the bareback services. But the whole seen for me was sloppy and high risk.

 

[chrisdaco69]

I always use protection, even when i meet a random girl. Only time i don't use protection is if i'm in a relationship. The game has changed so much, why take risk.