Hey everyone! I am extremely new to this and so far have only seen Binna at Sexyhouse. LSC girls look hot but LSC P.O. is asking for Drivers License and Work ID. Is it worth giving this information and what has everyone’s experience been with such screening? Just concerned about giving away such files on text. Thanks
Yes, it is worth it. Screening fears that the org will out you so far don't seem justified.
There is a unresolvable conflict between your desire to be anonymous which makes you feel safe, but also makes providers unsafe. Anonymous guys are statistically more likely to violate providers and not follow rules which jeopardizes the organization. Even previously well behaved guys will sometimes violate women if they think themselves anonymous and no one watching.
LSC had to shutdown their San Mateo operation a few years ago supposedly because of stupid monger behaviour. Notice their page of rules - Candy101.
Your current drivers license and work ID, means that you are gainfully employed and sociably responsible, unlikely to be violent, or break rules, and non anonymous.
The picture is most important to tell who's at door. At new orgs who know I'm good long time monger, they will ask what I'm wearing, hair color (they already know age & ethnicity).
Your reluctance to pony up this info is not a mark against you, but is a sign you won't misbehave. Eventually, guys pony up this info when the little head overcomes the big head's fears. Also, it's OK to ask what info you can leave off, or half cover up on ids. But, enough work id needs to match dl.
There has been a lot of discussion of this recurring issue on ampreviews. Search for qualifying. It's appears to be very low risk.
Financial ID theft - most of that info is already out there, but your best defense is to put credit freezes on your account at all three credit agencies which is what I do.
Getting outed to significant other is more likely due to your own actions, like mixing up texting if not using separate burner, or burner getting discovered. If your other is suspicious, she can stick a magnetic gps tracker tracker on your car, personally track you, etc.
Finally, I think you should mention that you've seen Binna x times at sexyhouse. PO's don't say what all the qualifying rules to keep new guys from gaming the system. I think they might check on you with sexyhouse PO, but will deny it. The other thing that seems to commonly happen is an org doesn't let you in first time, but will let you in 2 months later. This happened to me with BGC despite being long time monger.