Out of curiosity, I joined Secret Benefits, I have to share this story involving female member "asianbabyb."
I traded messages with asianbabyb before she gave me access to her Secret Album. Some of the pics look Photoshopped to create a hardbody image (which would be cool if it's real).
Then we traded more messages (below).
asianbabyb:
before we get started, there are 3 rules I never bend. i’m not asking for much: my friend maggie coming in the first date, no physical intimacy until parties involved are ready, and honesty! I would need a ppm for each meeting though (intimacy or not and i usually start the first date without intimacy)
Me:
Thanks for your reply.
Okay. I understand and your 3 rules make sense. Rule 1 is especially important to ensure your comfort and safety. I would be happy to meet you and Maggie.
btw, I pay less for non-intimate meetings - as in coffee, lunch or dinner.
asianbabyb:
yes i understand, i typically get 400-700 for first meeting and then 800+ when we are ready for intimacy
Me:
I usually pay 100 for coffee, lunch or dinner - slightly more in extremely special circumstances.
FYI: There have been extensive on-going discussions on this topic on Men's discussion boards. The consensus is that we need to hold the line on paying for non-intimate meetings. It’s the principle of this situation.
So, my counteroffer is 100 for you and 0 for Maggie.