Running into providers or people who see you monger

[junction10s]

Has this happened? Must be discomforting.

Worst thing that's happened to me was seeing a papasan of a fast house at a cafe, but fortunately that was only because I was in the same area as that house is far removed from where I live, work or do anything in my routine.

I'm not the only one who prefers to keep this hobby as locked away from every other part of my life like that right? Just more comforting that way.

 

[Johnnylovesmassages]

I have seen AMP girls that I recognize at Costco. Where do you think they get their water bottles from? They saw me and I saw them. Has happened a few times. Basically just stared for a second and that was it. Once one of the girls gave me a little smile, but that was it. They know to keep it quiet. As for people who see me monger, I don't monger near my home and while I am not far away, the risk is minimal. And I don't worry about someone seeing me walk in or out. On the highway places (ie RT 46) people are driving too fast to notice), and in all honesty, I am just there for a massage.

 

[DrHappy88]

Johnny is right. The ladies know not to initiate contact if they see you out in the real world. So, don't worry that they they'll run up to you, put you in a bearhug and plant a big kiss on your lips. That won't happen. Otherwise, how to react depends on the situation. I haven't had this happen with AMP providers, but it has happened a few times with indies. Once, I was in a casual dining chain restaurant with my date and some friends when a provider I had been seeing walked in with a guy and some friends. I almost had a coronary. Even though I knew she wouldn't acknowledge me (TBH, I don't even think she saw me), since I was with people, it was unnerving, But, another time, I was having lunch by myself in a local diner when a provider (also alone) I had seen many times was seated in the booth next to mine. There was no avoiding it, so we just said hello to each other and I ended up sitting with her for a little while, just chatting like old friends.

As for the paranoia that everyone is watching you as you go in to massage parlor, I have come to realize that 99.99% of people are too wrapped up in their own lives to give a rat's ass about what I am doing. I experienced this epiphany when I realized that I couldn't care less about what they were doing either.

 

[nj_mike]

Hasn't happened in a while, but I've run into providers that I have seen out in the street numerous times in Manhattan and one time out in the Hamptions. Nothing bad came of any of those encounters and maybe we gave each other a quick knowing glance. One girl I'm still friends with told me one time she was on a plane with a girlfriend and one her clients was on the flight with his wife. Small world.

 

[markkennedy]

Lots of the Chinese girls I see have a basic moral line drawn about getting involved in your family life, outside of asking about them in a friendly way. I run into one at the Redner's grocery at least one Saturday a month when picking up my mother's grocery order, and the gal is buying the water for the shop and other assorted items. I usually see her in the shop Sunday nights. Is kind of creepy coincidence that our shopping times line up so many times weekly. But she also knows that I'm ok with public meeting, but before that, first time I saw her there she specifically did a heel turn and went down a different aisle. Total eye contact and everything, but 100% like Oh shit not getting involved in that! Now when I see her we stop and chat, even when my wife is with me, but if I'm there with my niece or my little niece, she will go the other way and not make any contact. For sure at least for Chinese providers I don't think anyone has anything to worry about.

People seeing you hobbying lol yea that's a thing! Same shop as referenced above, is on a pretty main road with a major convenience store like 1000 feet from her shop. Main entrance is up some steps, and right at a traffic light on that road. I've had guys and girls in my plant mention it to me several times that they saw me the other day going into or coming out of that place. Of course IDGAF, so I just shoot the shit with them about it or whatever. I can imagine someone trying to keep it UTR would have a stroke. That place has a back entrance that is 100% covert though. Be safe out there gents!

 

[SincerelyWF]

I run into them all the time actually. For their sake I always pretend like I’m meeting them for the first time in case they’re not open about what they do in the crowd I see them in. I’d hate to out anyone.

 

[junction10s]

I have seen AMP girls that I recognize at Costco. Where do you think they get their water bottles from? They saw me and I saw them. Has happened a few times. Basically just stared for a second and that was it. Once one of the girls gave me a little smile, but that was it. They know to keep it quiet. As for people who see me monger, I don't monger near my home and while I am not far away, the risk is minimal. And I don't worry about someone seeing me walk in or out. On the highway places (ie RT 46) people are driving too fast to notice), and in all honesty, I am just there for a massage.

Well massages are legal anyway, so you'd probably be okay with a nonshady overtly advertised place anyway. It's only if you're a younger guy or maybe one who's in an ltr when you may not want to be open about visiting those places due to jokes about those places offering sex even if they don't.

I'm talking about purchasing FS or BJs here lol

 

[junction10s]

I run into them all the time actually.

But you monger close to where you live or work?

 

[SincerelyWF]

No, but I monger in NYC and nyc is very small depending on your social and work circles.

 

[Beacon]

In NYC everyone is minding their own business in their little world so they won’t even notice. My friends and I usually stick to Staten Island and Brooklyn.

When I’ve hung out with some of the gals we would bump into other providers. You’d be surprised how many of them are friends with each other.

 

[Elbowmacaroni]

NYC monger meetup???

 

[이 회장님]

Last year, I grabbed dinner with several members from this site and while we were walking to a bar, we bumped into another member from this site who was jogging and we chatted and told him to join us for a beer.

 

[Johnnylovesmassages]

Last year, I grabbed dinner with several members from this site and while we were walking to a bar, we bumped into another member from this site who was jogging and we chatted and told him to join us for a beer.

how would you know that you bumped into one? was he wearing a "I go to amps button"?

 

[이 회장님]

No, but I monger in NYC and nyc is very small depending on your social and work circles.

A few months ago, I had dinner with several attorneys and we went to a room salon afterwards. Another attorney who I don’t know, later joined us at the room salon. He gave me a weird look and then an hour later, he sat next to me and asked me if my nickname was “Chairman”. I said I was “Rampage” and he laughed, told me to STFU and told me that he’s also a member in this site. Very small world. lol

 

[이 회장님]

how would you know that you bumped into one? was he wearing a "I go to amps button"?

He was a member that we met up a few times for dinner and mongering prior.

 

[Jimmys_hard]

I've run into AMP girls and everytime there's a quick smile or eye contact and they go about their business, they know better than to engage.

I do have a story about a stripper though, she used work at Go Go Rama in NJ. I frequented there and did get dances from her, so we knew each other. This was pre-covid, I was flying back to Philly from a business trip and she was sitting next to me, what are the odds!
At first we were both a lil' surprised and were on alert until we made sure we're both traveling alone. Once we were sure, we caught up and started talking, we had couple of drinks. I started flirting with her and took my shot, I asked her if she'd like to make a quick buck. She knew what I meant and was game. Luckily the flight was not full and we quietly made it to the bathroom. Lifted her top dropped the pants and started making out. We didn't have rubber so did lot of P2P from front and back with FIV and had her finish me off with BBJCIM. That was fucking awesome, my heart was racing. This was my first and only Mile high club experience. Once we land, we were on our separate ways.

 

[pclar001]

I have a friend who owns several cell phone stores in Flushing and parts of Queens. I went to meet him for lunch one day and an AMP girl i recognized with her friends refilling their prepay service. I've never saw her in a room but seen her in the spa. We glanced at each other but I noticed her friends were hot, I wanted to ask them where worked but didn't since too many people around. When they left, my friend turns to me and said those are all working girls, pretending not to know I asked how do you know, his telltale sign is they all pay cash for the latest iphones, use a prepay service bc they don't have credit, and they all ask for the designer phone cases that cost almost as much as the phone. And here I am still using my iphone 11 to post this message.