When seeing a provider the first time, it’s natural to be influenced by experiences with others we have seen many times, forgetting how many visits it took us to get there with a specific provider. Those experiences combined with reviews create false expectations for a first visit. Especially if she’s busy as was mentioned.
I’ve had many excellent first sessions with most providers. Thinking back to when I first met Tina, it took me 3 visits to 2 different spas before it really took off. The first two sessions were good in their own right, no complaints but the third is when we both saw stars and knew their was going to be a deep long lasting future.
With Tina, I’ve also found that there are certain things she likes, and some things she really likes. I always ask what she would like and find time to engage in those activities. She’s like all women, make them feel special and … you too will be seeing stars.