So I live in the area, that’s why I see her every once in a while also she goes to my gym, and it’s true if I pulled the trigger and see her somewhere and my SO is with me and this girl smiles or says hi to me, it could be a headache. My wife is in good shape and has nice body, but like many she is very self conscious, and since she has noticed guys staring at her at the gym, that’s all I need is like so you talk to her at the gym or the lil side comments of I guess you going to see your girl at the gym lol