I think her entire rant is about how lonely her customers are and that her job is about being a traditional woman for men who want to be traditional men. Not just asking the fat and old and ugly if they've eaten, but for the 10% you mentioned above. Even the tall and handsome don't feel needed and they pay her to feel special.
I'm sorry to admit that I am among the 90% old and ugly and balding. She does text to ask if I feel okay today. No other woman does. After this conversation, I realized that I have not been paying for pussy, I have been paying for someone to ask me if I have eaten dinner.
I wish that more men would realize that the problem is loneliness, not feminism.
Feminism isn't the reason that so many of us are lonely.
We like to think that if we had been alive before feminism we would be less lonely, but the sad truth is that the same things that keep us lonely today would have made us just as lonely if we had been this same age 100 years ago.
But the only thing more painful than being lonely is believing that it's something about yourself or inside of you that is making you feel that way. So we blame something or someone outside of ourselves even as we put ourselves down.
It feels way better to be angry than depressed, but being angry at other people for not wanting you always comes with being angry at yourself for not being "good enough" for people not to want you.
I have never met a guy who was angry at women and feminism who wasn't also angry at himself for being the kind of man that the women he wanted didn't want to be with.
We have so much love to give and want so much to be loved.
I don't know what the answer to the problem of loneliness is, but I do know that anger towards women and feminism only makes the loneliness worse.
As I've gotten older I've felt lonelier than I've ever felt before. It would have been so easy to just get angry at other people for "making me lonely" but even at lowest, a part of me knew this wouldn't change how lonely I was.
I got some professional help and realized that they weren't there to judge me or to put down. They were just there to help me.
I'm not perfect, I don't think any of us (especially here lol) are.
But I think a lot of us are lonely and angry at ourselves and other people for our loneliness. And I think that anger is keeping us from getting the real help we need.
I really enjoy hobbying. The days I see a good provider are days that I walk taller and sleep like a baby. And I am going to keep hobbying so long as I can afford it and am healthy enough to do it.
But there is a difference between someone who enjoys a drink and an alcoholic who drinks to numb himself because he is lonely.
This hobby is fun and feels great, but if you are doing it out of loneliness then it will only make things worse just like drinking until the pain goes away.
Please if you are angry or lonely try your best to get some professional help.
