Shanti was always a great place to get a real decent massage, especially for the price. Once you build a relationship though, usually a little extra can be given. The girl I began a relationship with eventually moved to another spa, and to this day I see her and enjoy the company and benefits that come from being a friend. Try just getting a massage with no funny business in the beginning. As you laugh and get to know each other, exchange numbers. Then become a little playful. It's all about the foreplay. Treat them like a wonderful human being and you'll be surprised at how she will feel and you will feel. Treat them like you're trying to abuse them and use them... well I hope karma kicks in.