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Review: Sexy Ukrainian & Uzbek - Elena
- Thread starter Latinolover11
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Sounds like op was infatuated. Calling it love sounds crazy. He also knew she had 3 kids. Bringing a Woman from another country here is typically a bad idea. They usually get the lay of the land fast and start acting like American Women. For that you just marry an American Woman or stay with her but leave her in her foreign land.
I wanted to embrace her kids but it's financially impossible. And BTW. I got her a passport in her country that I paid for. She was actually down to come here and leave her kids for a while but wanted to go back eventually. This is actually what her own mother did to her and her siblings when her mother had to go to Spain and work for a few years here and there. But then her mother was like it's a good idea but you really have to think about it. At first she was actually going to do it, but then changed her mind.
I know what you mean but this 1 was the real deal. She was just way too humble. I swear she could've easily taken advantage of me and she never did. She barely asked me for dough. Barely. I basically volunteered to pay for her monthly salon class which was nothing for me. It was only 100 per month and she was so grateful for that. And the occasionally simple gifts here and there. So could've stayed with me and made believe, but she was too humble for that and proffered to end it. Besides I have plenty of cousins who have brought wives from Ecuador and they have stayed humble here un the USA for year and they have not changed at all.
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Yes it was more about the sex than anything. I met her the 1st night and we only danced and kissed that night. And I was infatuated by her after that. I would literally drip just from reading her texts. It was crazy. I remember sometimes we would have arguments and we wouldn't chat for a few days. And we would both get depressed just from us not getting each other's texts. She said she couldn't believe I made her fall in love with me only through text and then eventually through video chat which she never liked but always wanted me to call her on video, eventually she wanted it everyday. She said it was so different from any man she had met in Ecuador who wanted to just sleep with her right away. She said, I just spoke to her, listened to her, consoled her, made her laugh, gave her moral support and eventually some financial support that she didn't even ask because she is not that type of person. I remember when I left, I had left her with a 100 dollars for to get something fixed but it never worked out. So I told her to just keep it then for herself and she would ask me every time of she could use some money here and there for groceries or something from the 100 dollars. Eventually there was only about 60 left and I told her to use that for her passport and she did. But she always kept me to date with the measly 100 dollars I had left her with. That's how humble she was.
Yes it was more about the sex than anything. I met her the 1st night and we only danced and kissed that night. And I was infatuated by her after that. I would literally drip just from reading her texts. It was crazy. I remember sometimes we would have arguments and we wouldn't chat for a few days. And we would both get depressed just from us not getting each other's texts. She said she couldn't believe I made her fall in love with me only through text and then eventually through video chat which she never liked but always wanted me to call her on video, eventually she wanted it everyday. She said it was so different from any man she had met in Ecuador who wanted to just sleep with her right away. She said, I just spoke to her, listened to her, consoled her, made her laugh, gave her moral support and eventually some financial support that she didn't even ask because she is not that type of person. I remember when I left, I had left her with a 100 dollars for to get something fixed but it never worked out. So I told her to just keep it then for herself and she would ask me every time of she could use some money here and there for groceries or something from the 100 dollars. Eventually there was only about 60 left and I told her to use that for her passport and she did. But she always kept me to date with the measly 100 dollars I had left her with. That's how humble she was.
Man, and I am saying this as nicely as possible, it sounds like you really resent your children!
You called them your "damn kids" (your words not mine) and you were ready to ditch them!
The only reason you didn't ditch them was that the woman you wanted to ditch your children to run off with refused to ditch her own children and you didn't want to pay child support to take care of your own kids and also help raise hers.
So not only were you ready to cut and run out on your own "damn kids" (again your words) you were pushing a woman to abandon her own children and run off with you because you didn't want to pay child support to support your own children who you were abandoning!
From the way you say it, it sounds like you view your own children, or "damn kids" as you put it, as a burden to your happiness and just something you have to pay for.
That is seriously fucked up man!
Not so much for you, but for your children! The "damn kids" that were born loving you and called you "daddy" before they could say much else!
I don't know your relationship with your children, but if they are still young enough that you are worried about paying child support if you abandon them, then chances are that they are still young enough to still love you in the way most young children love their parents.
And the fact that you described them as your "damn kids" that you don't want to pay upkeep for... Shit man, that is cold!
I'm not even going to go into how fucked up it is to tell the poor woman that you say you love that she has to choose between her kids or you!
Look, I doubt that you actually don't hold any love for your children. And I hope for your sake and theirs that you do still love them.
So if you're actually starting to see your children as little more than "damn kids" that drill holes in your wallet and keep you from happiness then something else is definitely wrong man!
And I can't stress this enough.
Whatever is wrong, it's not their fault and they shouldn't have to pay for it.
Please don't make your children pay for your unhappiness.
Because they are your children who love you and need way more from you than a dad who is starting to see them as just his "damn kids".
You called them your "damn kids" (your words not mine) and you were ready to ditch them!
The only reason you didn't ditch them was that the woman you wanted to ditch your children to run off with refused to ditch her own children and you didn't want to pay child support to take care of your own kids and also help raise hers.
So not only were you ready to cut and run out on your own "damn kids" (again your words) you were pushing a woman to abandon her own children and run off with you because you didn't want to pay child support to support your own children who you were abandoning!
From the way you say it, it sounds like you view your own children, or "damn kids" as you put it, as a burden to your happiness and just something you have to pay for.
That is seriously fucked up man!
Not so much for you, but for your children! The "damn kids" that were born loving you and called you "daddy" before they could say much else!
I don't know your relationship with your children, but if they are still young enough that you are worried about paying child support if you abandon them, then chances are that they are still young enough to still love you in the way most young children love their parents.
And the fact that you described them as your "damn kids" that you don't want to pay upkeep for... Shit man, that is cold!
I'm not even going to go into how fucked up it is to tell the poor woman that you say you love that she has to choose between her kids or you!
Look, I doubt that you actually don't hold any love for your children. And I hope for your sake and theirs that you do still love them.
So if you're actually starting to see your children as little more than "damn kids" that drill holes in your wallet and keep you from happiness then something else is definitely wrong man!
And I can't stress this enough.
Whatever is wrong, it's not their fault and they shouldn't have to pay for it.
Please don't make your children pay for your unhappiness.
Because they are your children who love you and need way more from you than a dad who is starting to see them as just his "damn kids".
This was not real deal and she realized quickly as wanted her to abandon her kids. People like you need wake up from reality. Realize you been living in fantasy of believing you was taking care of her. When truth is she probably only talk to you because she was lonely. Once she say your true intentions it was turn off.
My review got rejected because I didn't put the provider's name. I don't remember being like this before. Where do I put the providers name, in the private details? And also. If my review got rejected, why are members still able to read it then? I'm still not getting credit for it but members are able to read it still? I'm confused.
Honestly yeah!
I was trying not to be too mean about it, but the guy refers to his children as "damn kids" that he is willing to abandon, except that he didn't want to pay child support and forced a woman to choose between him and her own children who he also didn't want to raise.
And he thinks that this story plants him as some kind of Romeo in tragic impossible love story!
He just comes of as a shitheel who would have abandoned his kids in a heartbeat except that he didn't want the extra expense and made a woman choose between himself and her children, because he didn't want to help raise them either!
Fuck man, self indulgent much!
The tragedy here isn't that he isn't with the Ecuadorian woman. In fact there are two glaring tragedies here that he was too self absorbed to actually see.
The first tragedy is that a good woman fell for a man who asked her to choose between her children and him.
The second tragedy is that this same man views his own children as "damned kids" that he would abandon in a second, if only he didn't have to pay child support if he left them!
Thank goodness that woman chose her children over him! A third tragedy would have been if she had chosen him over her kids!
As for how he views his own "damn kids" and his willingness to drop them if only it didn't mean paying child support.
Fuck man... How could he not hear how vile he sounded even as he wrote those words
I was trying not to be too mean about it, but the guy refers to his children as "damn kids" that he is willing to abandon, except that he didn't want to pay child support and forced a woman to choose between him and her own children who he also didn't want to raise.
And he thinks that this story plants him as some kind of Romeo in tragic impossible love story!
He just comes of as a shitheel who would have abandoned his kids in a heartbeat except that he didn't want the extra expense and made a woman choose between himself and her children, because he didn't want to help raise them either!
Fuck man, self indulgent much!
The tragedy here isn't that he isn't with the Ecuadorian woman. In fact there are two glaring tragedies here that he was too self absorbed to actually see.
The first tragedy is that a good woman fell for a man who asked her to choose between her children and him.
The second tragedy is that this same man views his own children as "damned kids" that he would abandon in a second, if only he didn't have to pay child support if he left them!
Thank goodness that woman chose her children over him! A third tragedy would have been if she had chosen him over her kids!
As for how he views his own "damn kids" and his willingness to drop them if only it didn't mean paying child support.
Fuck man... How could he not hear how vile he sounded even as he wrote those words