Right, there's always spot of excitement somewhere haha I agree with you that sometimes just enjoy the girl and pls less asking the more specific question as our experience could be different. I also have lot of reason for saying some girl is a no no for me, but it's hard to explain as it's individual feeling specific. For me, for example I avoid girl that likes to do RIM/greek/all that stuffs , for others that's what they're looking for.