Having a genuine conversation with the girls go a long way. Most of them are far from home, have a young kid and debt, coming here is a business trip for them to gather enough to make their ends meet. Not just them, I crave their company too. An intimate session is nice but having a relax and fun chit chat is what relieving the emptiness in heart. I used to go to BCT meeting some relatively young talents there, just to have hours and hours of conversation and HJ. One of them is working at a FS place now, I am still seeing her for chat and more obviously.