I respect
@Baiter 's opinion on this, but
@RickeyRomance get's it.
I'm a realist. As a black guy I am treated pretty poorly in this industry, I have been turned away a ton of times. Sometimes when I go to a place I am literally yelled at by staff for just showing up. It's not fair, it's not right, but it is reality. It sucks but I can't waste a lot of time crying about it, I just have to know the game I'm playing. If I want good service I have to know the process to get it.
Sometimes when I show up at a place (like what happened at Scorpio), there is a moment of shock and I think all the ladies are saying to them selves
"oh my god, it's a dangerous black man." Someone (usually the one who is the least popular with clients) is encouraged to do. And as she works she does a half ass job to see how aggressive I am, she won't do any teasing or playfulness, just the bare-bone minimum to get me out if I'm trouble.
But by the end of the massage, any gal who isn't a straight up racist, wants my number or wants to give me theirs, because I'm a perfect client. I don't push boundaries and I don't do a lot of negotiations.
I have been to AMPs/LMPs where I have had to suffer through the poorly skilled rookie to later gain access to the MVP. Is it always worth it? NO! A lot of places just suck. But this place has positive reviews, and I got a hint that now they are okay with me so I might see that positive.