Typically (and, recently) upon my first time somewhere, if I ask by name, they get suspicious and the session sours. So I gave them the benefit of the doubt and went with the flow. If they choose to hand me the runt of the litter, that’s on them. If I have a bad time; they lose a customer. Makes no sense to me. I’ve plenty of money I’m willing to hand over to them. Many other places (for example, any business) my first time wows me and I’ve back time and time again. Better question is, why didn’t I go to one of them. For that, I blame variety. And, the nature of this site. #FakeNews. One’s mileage varies time and time again. What I’m looking for is not readily available and the pop-rock reviews don’t help.