Hey Jersey........not judging and no need for an apology, I wasn't looking for one nor expecting one.
All of this is subjective, fantasy, right up until someone invests time and resources based on shared information, offered suggestion or opinion, ie: the board and takes the initiative, makes the call, goes for a drive.
Call it a personal problem, call it my problem but in having learned exactly what the acro's meant a long time ago,...call it a guide for the potential, possible indication for what may be in the cards, the process starts. At times, I've rearranged my work day,... showered, shaved, trimmed my nails, groomed myself accordingly, slightest air of body wash, brushed my teeth, mouth wash and jumped in the car. Often times if going to a place for the first time and depending on the time of day, I'll stop at a bakery, maybe a deli or a liquor store as a token of kindness, being thoughtful. At times the drive is 10 minutes other times, unlimited. For instance, Tina in Sewell is a two hour drive for me,...
As I digress, I have a penchant for spinners (which is a whole other debate) which offer at the very least, a GFE experience, a known, accepted description for what may be possible during the encounter. Arriving, I pay the HF and these days, very often the tip is asked for upfront, which I hate but in some instances, understand the ladies perspective. All in all, I'm fine,....looking forward to that implied, GFE experience I read about.
So we've all been there,.....towel or sheet comes out, draped from the waste down, hymm,... some lame medium/hard massage ensues, with or without oil. Now 20 minutes, 30 minutes into the session, some tease grab-ass starts, the flip happens, might turn her face to the side offering a cheek. Right about now, one starts to realize, they will eating the HF, will be lucky to get any of the fronted tip returned......while wondering, did I see the wrong attendant,.. one blows in their palm of their hand, wondering about their breath, was the tip enough? I normally don't fight or argue, trying to get it back, I just don't return. Chalk it up to a waste of money and time, which for me, my time is more valuable then the money.
What I really mean is, I assume responsibility for my session. Normally, I would read a respected mongers perspective about any given someone or sent a PM making an inquiry, those knowing whom they are but sometimes, based on what is offered implied, I might roll the dice,....based on someone I'm not familiar with who offers a history of messages, some meaningful reviews, like minded content which seemingly appeals to my senses, like GFE, spinners, for instance....
The point. Yes, our hobby, the session, subjective but the thread, the posts shouldn't be misleading as such, intentional or otherwise. I don't think I'm alone on this one. An accurate account doesn't mean it has to be graphic but hopefully provide enough information for anyone reading, to make an informed decision. Of course one could always solicit a PM response from the OP, anyone as well. I don't buy the debate of not knowing what to expect if the review doesn't read like a Hustler segment, which I was also guilty of early on. I doubt anyone would confuse the meaning, seeing the absence of a "B", in it's place, a "C" or an "L" in place of a "D" or indicating Standard, GFE, PSE and so on.....assume responsibility for what we are posting, how and who it affects. A simple, accurate indication of details should suffice, while leaving the embellished, misinformed, made-up stuff for the obvious, those with grandiose egos or trying gain access to seeing the private content.