Time for me to swoop in and lay down the law. Well not the law, but whoremonger ethics.
There are two issues here: The writer's actions in the room (assuming they have been portrayed accurately). And then how he wrote about them.
In the room, there's a grey area here. Yes, Gucci signed up for this to some extent. But you can take that only so far. Just like waitresses sign up knowing that some customers are dicks, doesn't mean it's OK to be a dick to waitresses. (The fact that the pay scales are vastly different here really is not justification for being more dickish, though of course it does factor into the cold calculation of whether signing up for this is worth it to her in the first place. And it sounds like Gucci is a veteran and knows this calculation).
That said, we have our needs, and I myself have run across similar problems. Certainly many times I've heard "come for me baby", which of course is code for: please can we get this over with already, this is starting to get annoying/uncomfortable/painful, and I have kept going. It kind of depends on how long we've been at it. My personal rule of thumb: tapping out after ~15 minutes full throttle is OK. If the girl is clearly unhappy, I will try to finish within a minute. If it takes longer than a minute, I will offer my gratitude (not necessarily apologies, but gratitude - subtle but important distinction) for putting up with it. Sounds crazy, but believe it or not, communicating that sentiment/consideration actually seems to work pretty well. I often get in response: "that's OK keep going". Helps if you can make her laugh while this is going on.
If it happens within the first 10 minutes, and despite a good faith effort on her part you can't find a way for it to work so she's not in pain, it's a loss, but so be it. That's what WE sign up for too I believe. I think it's completely fair to point out in your review that the girl can't take it with larger gentlemen, and give her a no. If it's a ridiculously short time (less than 5), I think it's even OK to say, I'm sorry, but this session isn't working, and get in touch with the MMS. You won't get a full refund, but there should be some consideration there, and if they don't offer some consideration, point that out in the review. Helps of course if you're a regular.
While she never asked directly to stop, in this case, given that she was giving out pretty direct verbal cues in advance that she was concerned, it's somewhat on the dude to explicitly clarify: is this going to be a problem? And then take it from there. If it IS a problem, like I said, respectfully lay out your needs, and if she says she can't manage them, cut the session short, talk to the MMS and figure out an alternative for another time. (Or if you need your nut NOW, and a nice girl is around then that time). I once was offered a relief pitcher to come in to finish the job at no extra cost. Admittedly that was an unusual case. Yes, that this can be inconvenient. Deal.
Even after you both agree to go forward, in my view It ABSOLUTELY is the dudes obligation to NOT go straight to full throttle right away. Give the girl a few minutes to adjust for goodness sake. I find patience is usually rewarded. In all but 2 cases in my experience, we eventually get to a point where she can accommodate my desired pace and depth with no issues. And I have to say, that moment of relaxation and opening up sometimes happens rather suddenly and it's an AMAZING moment for me. I often prefer these sessions to girls who are wide open from the get go. Please read my first Mongolian Yuri review from early 2022 (not the repeat this year). That started off very similar to this Gucci episode. But then went from near disaster to sensational. From the self-reporting here, it appears there was little to no warm-up period offered from the customer side.
Then there's how we write about the experience. I think Blixen here is also reacting to the rather cavalier description of the events. I'm sorry to say, but it DOES read like he took some pleasure, or at least found it funny, that she was so uncomfortable. Frankly, yes, that's distasteful and just good old-fashioned bad manners. No, it's not saving a ho to point out bad manners. There's nothing wrong with, or unmanly about, being respectful to whores. I once wrote something similar on another thread that got deleted. I have no idea how pointing this out actually saves any ho. It's actually us dudes that need saving. (Point being, if anyone feels attacked by this....love the sinner, hate the sin, etc etc. We've ALL pulled asshole moves from time to time. Doesn't mean you're truly fundamentally an asshole deep down. A little self-reflection never hurt anyone. Let's all endeavor to be better.) Then again, probably 20-30% of us are irredeemable assholes. I'm talking to the redeemable assholes now.
Also, a little consideration helps preserve the longevity of the good ones for the rest of us. I'm still pretty bummed I never got to see the Azami that was at WSD/PP a few months ago. Was really looking forward to that one. I had booked her a few days in adavance, but the night before I got a text asking if "mouth and chest only" would be OK. She got worn out and would not be offering the full show for the remainder of her stay. I said thank you for letting me know, but that would not be OK, and had to cancel. I can't say for sure, but I would assume it was due to too many sessions like this. Also, likely Azami was too polite to say anything to dudes who were rough. (Of course this is really more an issue with management not respecting their own whores and not abiding by any sort of reasonable pitch count).
Instead of girls, let's use the example of ZipCars. I don't want to be married to a car and have to worry about its maintenance 24/7/365. But sometimes I need a vehicle for an hour or two to get me places. Or maybe I have a car, but it's in the shop. Or maybe I just want to take a different model for a spin every now and then. It's usually a very nice program that benefits both the renter and the rentee. But sometimes you get your zipcar and find that the previous driver was a fucking inconsiderate pig. Sure, you paid your hourly fee, but clean up your nasty dirty tissues and half empty bottles please. Don't run the damn vehicle into the ground. And for God's sake leave some gas in the tank for the next guy.
PS - without having been there and hearing the tone/seeing the facial expression myself, and thank god i was not, it's possible that last quote from Gucci COULD have been said with a teasing/flirting admiration. I've heard things in that vein before said with a smile and been told to come back next week....but not tomorrow.
Respectfully Yours,
Captain-Save-a-Zip