From the sounds of it you definitely saw the same girl as me, but completely different experience. It does sound like she wasn't attracted to you as she let me DATY, was never in pain, and we were going at it in doggy pretty hard&fast to finish. She did do the gyrating thing which didn't give me much sensation, but it seemed like she enjoyed immensely.
FWIW, every asian girl that i've dated has mentioned they don't like indian men, and most don't like black men either. Good luck finding a place where you don't have to worry about this.