Now people can understand why when you have a good indy, you are reluctant to share (then get targeted) a provider. Yes this site is supposed to help searching out providers but the downside is that you can bring heat on that provider and ruin your own good thing. And as I noted way back, you can try to steer business to a strictly therapeutic masseuse, who is super in their massage, but specifically noting they do not engage in any sexual activity. But then along comes the guy who thinks he is Mr. smooth talking Cassanova and is told exactly what I said the provider would not do and like candy taken from a baby, the JO goes ballistic with the provider. Fortunately that provider was smart enough to early on know a loser when she hears one and the sexually explicit threats are simply given to the police for future reference. Not everyone is looking strictly for having the general brought to attention, but appreciates a great massage. So if anyone wonders why there is limited info on some providers or none at all, these could be some clues. So beyond giving a good physical description, personality evaluation and performance # 2-9, never understood why super details are set out there describing a good provider to where they cringe or say, "don't you ever give me a review like that". There are enough experienced mongers out there who have a reputation for making the rounds and a # 8 or 9 should tell you all you need to know and keeps unnecessary heat from providers. If you don't have an imagination, then should work on that. I sometimes think its the ego telling us how much they do and get. Real heroes in the military for example, don't have to brag or prove anything because they are comfortable in their skin and experiences. But then as Dennis Miller used to say after a long rant, "but then again, I could be wrong".
