In the last 2 weeks I have NEVER called them (mainly with the fear thinking they might just put me in the block list). I have only texted maybe 2 or 3 times. On different day/time of the week.
"well-written text, explaining who you are and offer to provide references."
IMO...If you can share your initial conversation which got you in the door that would be more helpful. Doesn't have to be word for word what you wrote, but in the same lines of how you worded your text and feel free to filter/blank out the personal details. Thanks in advance.
I first started using this crew maybe 10-12 or more years ago, so I obviously have history and am a known customer.
That said, over the years, when contacting a new agency, I would say something like: "Hi, my name is "YoMomma" I saw the ads for Kyra on AdultSearch and would like to get screened to make an appointment. My name is "XXXXX", and I have references at "ABC and XYZ agencies and XXX spa". Also, I'm a member of AMPReviews and my handle is "TinyPecker"...please let me know if you need any other info. Thank you.
Sending a similar text or email to above will most likely guarantee at least a response. But then again, some of these places will not accept an IP/throwaway/Google Voice type of phone number (yes, they will search it online to determine your carrier), and in those cases, you would have to use your real life mobile number. Up to you to determine whether it's worth it, or not.