Though this situation is unlikely, it does happen. I’m not sure in NY or NJ, but it happened to me in Vegas 3 years back. I texted a girl and wanted to setup an appointment for that night and she asked me the casino name I was in and said she was close by and can meet me for a drink. We met in the bar, spoke for 15 mins, she was very nice and we didn’t talk shop and I certainly enjoyed her company for 15 mins and most importantly liked what I saw, so we setup the time for our session and I ended up having an amazing session.