Dude it happens. Especially if you took a break for a while. Gotta get yourself back in the game. I agree with RPM, where most would never admit to it. I was with a pretty well known provider, who I've been with 20 times before, and one particular time I was done super quick and she actually turned around while on all 4s and said, "really?!" From then on I used my breathing techniques and short strokes to stay in the game for the long haul. You'll be back before u know it!