This is great stuff.
Andrea Dworkin famously claimed that heterosexual sex as understood broadly by society, is essentially forcefully aggressive towards women. (Some accused her of saying that all sex is rape.)
I’ve always felt that there’s a degree of truth to this, but that, as Dworkin acknowledged, many women are complicit in the arrangement.
Seems to me biology plays a role too: men are stronger and (often) more aggressive than women, and women often are attracted to this, sometimes in spite of their better judgement.
I’ve known lots of women who got off in cowgirl, but took a more elemental pleasure in mish, fully subordinate to a man’s dominance, more than willing to go along for the (rough) ride; and these weren’t timid, subordinate women.
The campus antics of pausing every 5 minutes to ask the girl’s further consent strike me as ludicrous and essentially anti-sex as we understand it as a species.
So a playful use of rape fantasy, including between SWs and their clients, strikes me as normal and even healthy.
And yet, and yet.
Obviously the line gets crossed between fantasy-pleasure and violation-pain all the fucking time. We must give these, our beautiful, hard-working Asian muses our deepest gratitude and respect!
But the OP’s description struck a chord with me. I believe all this was play, or close enough for government work, anyway.
Let us not hasten to judgement over an act that we haven’t really figured out in a million years... or perhaps 4.28 billion.