Well I guess your TIP would not qualify you for entry into "Last Of The Big Time Spenders Club", but I can understand your frustration. You should have instructed her to work on your arms and legs more.
Perhaps she thought you were a cop, and was apprehensive ? You didn't say whether a body shower was available, that always helps to break the ice, and also if ya bring a few "HATS" in she knows you mean business.