Read some of my 2400 comments and the answer to your questions lie there.
I have been advocating for discretion for well over two years, and not only in New Jersey. Do I point out stupidity ever time I read it no or else I would have to quit my job and spend it on here. I just try to show respect to the girls, to the owners of the spa , to the members and owner of this site. There are certain things that should and should not be discussed in an open forum. Level of service and donation are two if those. They are contained in the Private Details for a reason.
I hope that gives you some insight of who I am and where I am coming from.