Porn addiction can mess with your libido. It’s too convenient, you can search for exactly what you want, and is sans human connection and is compliant with our whims. It also encourages impulsive behavior.
In the last year I’ve really focused on cutting back on porn. I also won’t hobby if I’ve masturbated within 48 hours because I’ll have trouble with the condom and/or finishing. Same thing with the 3 women I’m intimate with in my personal life. Only one of them has the skills to make me bust hard regardless of my impulsivity prior to our hook up.
Finally, counseling helps. I encourage it especially based on how some of you talk about yourselves.