Honestly, from adolescence until I was almost 50years old, I never understood why a guy would want his pee hole poking around a place where shit would most likely get in it. Even with a cover on, I just didn’t see it as a compelling activity.
Then a provider (Dolci actually) requested i fuck her ass and really sounded like she wanted it bad, and got really excited as I was doing it, and was holding on like I was her god and loudly proclaiming I was the best as I came inside her. And my fear of shit on the dick suddenly vanished - because I love positive feedback more than anything.
I figured that was just a fluke but suddenly my life was practically filled with what I thought were “unicorns” - pros and civvies that don’t just tolerate but really *want* cock in their ass (well actually only so many I could still count on the fingers of one hand, but seemed like a lot after decades of none). 2015 was like the year of the sphincter for me.
I still don’t get why someone would prefer anal, seek it out, pay extra, beg for it, enjoy doing it to someone wincing in pain or playing candy crush on their phone.... but god bless us all, really.