Should I get revenge on my ex-SB by sharing our texts with her current bf? Get ready for a description of ridiculous drama I got into at a low point in my life due to midlife crisis and a bad marriage.
Long story short, I got way in over my head with a SB 20 years younger involving declarations of love and so forth, referring to each other as bf/gf. I even got her an apartment near my office because it made sense as I was getting hotels 2-3x week.
I ended it a year ago as it became too much like a relationship - like constant arguing and I had to chase her for sex almost - and two months pass and she calls my wife and exposes the “affair” and says I “ruined” her life. Wife read all of our texts and we are still together but it has been HELL with counseling and it brought up daily.
Subsequently, I told the SB’s family she is a sex worker.
She acted like we were a couple and almost was suicidal when she discovered that I fucked other SA girls. But she was fucking someone else too I later discovered. Probably
Multiple guys. I think the main guy is from SA because I told him what she did to me and how she was living in an apartment I rented while they were “together” and yet they are still together!
In fact, she started living with him the day after I ended it and “evicted” her and so he knows this and that while
Living with him she called my wife.
Anyway, I deleted all my texts and then just discovered some exist on my computer and in them she says that she has no desire for this guy and the only sex she has desired is with me. She says she cares very little about him and loves me.
should I send these texts to her and the boyfriend or just let it go? Remember, my wife read them and so why shouldn’t he? But I think he is so desperate for free young pussy that she could shoot someone on 5th Ave and he would stay with her. So it’ll likely be for nothing and I risk that she will get more revenge. After all, SBs have less to lose than us
Long story short, I got way in over my head with a SB 20 years younger involving declarations of love and so forth, referring to each other as bf/gf. I even got her an apartment near my office because it made sense as I was getting hotels 2-3x week.
I ended it a year ago as it became too much like a relationship - like constant arguing and I had to chase her for sex almost - and two months pass and she calls my wife and exposes the “affair” and says I “ruined” her life. Wife read all of our texts and we are still together but it has been HELL with counseling and it brought up daily.
Subsequently, I told the SB’s family she is a sex worker.
She acted like we were a couple and almost was suicidal when she discovered that I fucked other SA girls. But she was fucking someone else too I later discovered. Probably
Multiple guys. I think the main guy is from SA because I told him what she did to me and how she was living in an apartment I rented while they were “together” and yet they are still together!
In fact, she started living with him the day after I ended it and “evicted” her and so he knows this and that while
Living with him she called my wife.
Anyway, I deleted all my texts and then just discovered some exist on my computer and in them she says that she has no desire for this guy and the only sex she has desired is with me. She says she cares very little about him and loves me.
should I send these texts to her and the boyfriend or just let it go? Remember, my wife read them and so why shouldn’t he? But I think he is so desperate for free young pussy that she could shoot someone on 5th Ave and he would stay with her. So it’ll likely be for nothing and I risk that she will get more revenge. After all, SBs have less to lose than us
