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Retiring from mongering over 30yrs
- Thread starter Berger45
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Oh so the assumption is 99% are after the conquest? Not so sure that’s true. The conquest of getting a young hottie in real life without paying $100+ in fees would probably be more rewarding. I mean we are all human and want to get more of everything if we can, but I am guessing most people are into Amp world for the sensual pleasures of touch and Os.
Best of luck.
Covid has caused us and given us the opportunity to think and rethink many things.
Good advice to the newbies and a good refresher for us who have been in the game for a while.
“- don't get involved with providers, you're in this to get off not to save someone. They don't need to "know you"
More often the not, the involvement is not to save someone, although for a newbie that is most likely the reason combined with other reasons. The involvement develops over extended time with each other.
“be prepared to get addicted.” There are many levels of addiction in this hobby. It’s easy to move from one addiction to another.
Covid has caused us and given us the opportunity to think and rethink many things.
Good advice to the newbies and a good refresher for us who have been in the game for a while.
“- don't get involved with providers, you're in this to get off not to save someone. They don't need to "know you"
More often the not, the involvement is not to save someone, although for a newbie that is most likely the reason combined with other reasons. The involvement develops over extended time with each other.
“be prepared to get addicted.” There are many levels of addiction in this hobby. It’s easy to move from one addiction to another.
Hi Guys!
So I have not given in and seen a provider since stopping. It has however been ridiculously difficult. I'm a super disciplined individual and it's disturbing how much of a pull the hobby has on me. My sexlife with my SO has never been better so that's awesome. I've confirmed that this is indeed a mental addiction for me and something I need to overcome.
I've been concentrating on a conversation I had with a super hot young provider a while ago. She asked me if I had a SO and I said yes. She followed that by does she not give you what you want? I said no she gives me whatever I want....that's when she said "why are you doing this? You're a good looking guy who could pick up a girl for free?" My response was to jokingly say "my odds are better with you". We both laughed and got to it. Man that conversation haunts me now because I don't have an answer beyond "because I can't stop myself". This is my truth and I am not implying this applies to any of you guys. I just feel I can be honest here.
I've been reading some reviews and have to say, I feel like the sober guy at the party. I smile reading about your awesome sessions and give you the "better luck next time" nod when you TOFTT.
I'll check in every now and then and will offer input when I can contribute to the discussion.
So I have not given in and seen a provider since stopping. It has however been ridiculously difficult. I'm a super disciplined individual and it's disturbing how much of a pull the hobby has on me. My sexlife with my SO has never been better so that's awesome. I've confirmed that this is indeed a mental addiction for me and something I need to overcome.
I've been concentrating on a conversation I had with a super hot young provider a while ago. She asked me if I had a SO and I said yes. She followed that by does she not give you what you want? I said no she gives me whatever I want....that's when she said "why are you doing this? You're a good looking guy who could pick up a girl for free?" My response was to jokingly say "my odds are better with you". We both laughed and got to it. Man that conversation haunts me now because I don't have an answer beyond "because I can't stop myself". This is my truth and I am not implying this applies to any of you guys. I just feel I can be honest here.
I've been reading some reviews and have to say, I feel like the sober guy at the party. I smile reading about your awesome sessions and give you the "better luck next time" nod when you TOFTT.
I'll check in every now and then and will offer input when I can contribute to the discussion.
I've had similar experiences by a number of providers and share your sentiment, the hobby has taken a toll on my relationship, and my SO and I agree that I need counseling.
I've finally opened my eyes and had to tell myself wth am I doing my SO is hotter than nearly all of the providers that I have seen. I got into this scene 11 years ago and had very limited awesome moments and tons of good times. But if I could I would go back and never get involved
I've finally opened my eyes and had to tell myself wth am I doing my SO is hotter than nearly all of the providers that I have seen. I got into this scene 11 years ago and had very limited awesome moments and tons of good times. But if I could I would go back and never get involved
Providers kept texting me to let me know of their availability. So yeah after that I owned up. Not a sex addiction persay because I try not to do sex since I'm committed. Just HJ and/or BJ etc.
I'm addicted to variance ? Sensual touch ? Idk but at this point it's been over 2 months and that's a record! Over a decade and this is a record for me smh.
I'm addicted to variance ? Sensual touch ? Idk but at this point it's been over 2 months and that's a record! Over a decade and this is a record for me smh.
And you’re SO prefers that you stop seeing massage girls, or are you doing it for yourself? I guess I personally love the massage part and even occasionally see chiropractor/ acupuncture. My SO totally knows as I was honest from day one and feels it is therapeutic. She even goes once in a blue moon and we have therapists visit us once in a while. I am guessing people that really feel the need to quit do way more often than most of us?
Good post. Reading your post is like I wrote it. Could’ve said it better. I’ve been at it for just as long and I’m coming to the end of a good run. I’m just not into it anymore honestly lol. I saw my regular provider for the last time that other day. So I probably hang it up. Good advice on not getting involved with a provider. I made that mistake twice lol. Not recommended. They are in this business for a reason. Don’t get personal with them. It won’t work.
I have had some good times and bad times. It was fun but time to move on. Good luck !
I have had some good times and bad times. It was fun but time to move on. Good luck !
Well my SO definitely wants me to stop she can't believe that I would even go and do something like that (I'm still in my prime ). And besides that, the realization that it's hard to stop just makes me want to stop. Like it's been 11+ years I've seen dozens of amps close, I've seen providers change their lives and leave the business and I've seen so many really lose their sex appeal and let themselves go and also lose a few screws.
So it just isn't the hobby for me anymore I've seen the reality of it and not just the mirage, of a fun thrilling time.
So it just isn't the hobby for me anymore I've seen the reality of it and not just the mirage, of a fun thrilling time.