Regretted meeting a Girl?

[Resoroam]

Not just talking about k girls, women in general. Have you meet someone and looked back at the shit you did and were like WTF did I do. Like almost all girls are bipolar schizos. Never bother getting to know them. Some girls I see just had a mental breakdown and I am standing there thinking why me. One was a civilian and the other was a k girl. They are so similar, the emotional baggage they carry is insane. I understand the working girl more, she has to have sex with random guys that pay. She must have burnt out. While the other is just having a mental breakdown because she has to be a functional adult in society.

I have started to feel jaded about the whole idea of dating. Spending time with women outside of sex is a waste of time. I enjoy hookups, one night stands and I am also not ashamed of paying for it. Sometimes you want that emotional connection. Sure my ex girlfriend was a bitch that was never happy but at least we got along sometimes. I don’t want to sound like a bitch but I think I am getting depressed.

Point is don’t try to date the girls that have sex for a living. Don’t date girl that are a waking red flag no matter how hot they are. Just don’t date women. How are some of you guys in long term relationship or married? How do you guys do it? Am I just immature or am I emotional stunted? Any advice would be helpful. As always stay safe kings.

 

[Baytenswitch]

Dang, dude.

 

[rodneyfarva]

Sir, this is a Wendy's.

 

[SFGiantsLuv]

Wow is right. It's not an "It's all about me" world...show some compassion.
Perhaps you should just take a break from all women in general and get your priorities straight in life. Parents divorced? How did they get along? Thing to ponder while you take a break...just my half cent opinion

 

[ess_eff_2022]

lol my worst experience was seeing a well reviewed lao or cambodian girl with amazing pictures only to be met with the fact that she literally just had a baby the month before and she only breasts feeds from one tit so they were completely lopsided in size.

 

[TMKB]

Not just talking about k girls, women in general. Have you meet someone and looked back at the shit you did and were like WTF did I do. Like almost all girls are bipolar schizos. Never bother getting to know them. Some girls I see just had a mental breakdown and I am standing there thinking why me. One was a civilian and the other was a k girl. They are so similar, the emotional baggage they carry is insane. I understand the working girl more, she has to have sex with random guys that pay. She must have burnt out. While the other is just having a mental breakdown because she has to be a functional adult in society.

I have started to feel jaded about the whole idea of dating. Spending time with women outside of sex is a waste of time. I enjoy hookups, one night stands and I am also not ashamed of paying for it. Sometimes you want that emotional connection. Sure my ex girlfriend was a bitch that was never happy but at least we got along sometimes. I don’t want to sound like a bitch but I think I am getting depressed.

Point is don’t try to date the girls that have sex for a living. Don’t date girl that are a waking red flag no matter how hot they are. Just don’t date women. How are some of you guys in long term relationship or married? How do you guys do it? Am I just immature or am I emotional stunted? Any advice would be helpful. As always stay safe kings.

You just spelled out the natural state of a man my friend. Live life like a king, fuck whoever you want, and don't get bogged down by relationships. Unfortunately, once society perceives you that way, you lose credibility. How many successful politicians, lawyers, doctors or businessmen do you know who are self-professed whore mongers and lovers of one-night-stands?

You pretend to play the monogamy game to keep your place in society. Keep the whoremongering discreet, and keep it a secret so guarded you take it with you to the grave. Project the image of a saint, but sin away in private. Best of all worlds my friend. But you got to rise above the moral compunctions, and learn to play the game. Makes life very very interesting.

 

[Resoroam]

You just spelled out the natural state of a man my friend. Live life like a king, fuck whoever you want, and don't get bogged down by relationships. Unfortunately, once society perceives you that way, you lose credibility. How many successful politicians, lawyers, doctors or businessmen do you know who are self-professed whore mongers and lovers of one-night-stands?

You pretend to play the monogamy game to keep your place in society. Keep the whoremongering discreet, and keep it a secret so guarded you take it with you to the grave. Project the image of a saint, but sin away in private. Best of all worlds my friend. But you got to rise above the moral compunctions, and learn to play the game. Makes life very very interesting.

Yeah, seems to be like that. I just have to not be an idiot about how I go about doing things. Might have to cut back a bit on the one night stands and mongering, to be able to balance a relationship. This was some real good advice, thanks it’s appreciated.

 

[TMKB]

Yeah, seems to be like that. I just have to not be an idiot about how I go about doing things. Might have to cut back a bit on the one night stands and mongering, to be able to balance a relationship. This was some real good advice, thanks it’s appreciated.

You are welcome my friend. Life is too interesting to waste it away on moral quandaries and dilemmas. Live life to the fullest!

 

[augie.ezel]

Sounds like you needs a companion. Go to a pet shelter and see if there are any good looking dogs or cats that you'd cuddle with.

 

[wrongwaycorrigan]

You just spelled out the natural state of a man my friend. Live life like a king, fuck whoever you want, and don't get bogged down by relationships. Unfortunately, once society perceives you that way, you lose credibility. How many successful politicians, lawyers, doctors or businessmen do you know who are self-professed whore mongers and lovers of one-night-stands?

You pretend to play the monogamy game to keep your place in society. Keep the whoremongering discreet, and keep it a secret so guarded you take it with you to the grave. Project the image of a saint, but sin away in private. Best of all worlds my friend. But you got to rise above the moral compunctions, and learn to play the game. Makes life very very interesting.

Words to live by!

 

[vaginatarian]

Interesting that you seek advice from a group of people that are predisposed to lying and cheating on their significant others, (at least the ones that can maintain the façade of a normal relationship) to justify your behavior. Psychopaths abound here, and I do not pretend that I am any different. I am not taking the moral high ground, I am what I am, a whoremongering liar with no compulsion to be anything different.

 

[Don Hollinger]

Interesting that you seek advice from a group of people that are predisposed to lying and cheating on their significant others, (at least the ones that can maintain the façade of a normal relationship) to justify your behavior. Psychopaths abound here, and I do not pretend that I am any different. I am not taking the moral high ground, I am what I am, a whoremongering liar with no compulsion to be anything different.

But if I had an offbeat question of this nature--I don't know where else I would take it. Just google whores, whoremonger and you'll get a ton of highbrow, scornful articles and posts by people who act like they know what they're talking about. No constructive advice.

I might be a lying psychopath but at least I know what I'm talking about, and so do you.

So many years ago I made peace with my crazy self...And psychopaths like us hook up with lady psychopath sex workers--we're just crazy ass people who need each other.

The act itself, for all of the controversy and hand wringing, is pretty damn normal when you think about it.

 

[Mnyxo]

Who needs therapy!? I found all the answers on this discussion! Thanks Amigos!

 

[Resoroam]

Talked with my boys and for the most part the all agreed I was being a bitch. I don’t know what depression is. Obviously left out the part of me fucking whores. Perhaps I was a bit of an selfish asshole but that wasn’t they way I acted with them, I only thought it. The Kgirl said i was a great guy for comforting her. Decided to ghost the other girl.

I went back to hang out with kgirl, I had the brilliant idea watching a kdrama with her afterwards. Ate some of her left over food and went out for a walk. (Cooking was better then I expected) Guess I am failing the gospel of Future.

 

[bean.al]

Not sure how old you are but I started this hobby very young. It definitely stunted my emotional growth. You sound a lot like I did a few years after I started out. I eventually met a great woman and stepped away for years. Now I’m back again because at the end of the day variety is the spice of life and this hobby keeps me from “real” cheating and having an affair. I’m still a crazy fuck though because I somehow justify this as not cheating lol

 

[vaginatarian]

What bean.al said

 

[Seconda]

We're here, not because of predisposition to cheating/infidelity or natural state of masculinity or anything like that. It's the simple human act of self care. Getting our needs met is something natural and human.

A man's emotional needs stem from physical needs, so even if you love your partner, it's almost impossible to live with a dead bedroom. So, you cheat in a responsible a way as possible. Individual reasons vary, like being trapped in the relationship via kids, finances, or simple cowardice, but your needs are valid, even if society deems how they are met to be immoral or illegal.

As for @Resoroam , those feelings are similar to extreme porn addiction; if you are getting all your emotional and physical needs met by mongering, there might not be room for a civvie relationship to develop and you may not know what a good relationship looks/feels like. A good partner is like a best friend that you just want to bang all the time.

The rest of us are just the folks that have something preventing us from having a normal civvie relationship, like being too unattractive, working too much, social issues, constantly traveling, or simply not built for monogamy.
What connects us is that we care and take care of ourselves, ideally without shame.