Let me tell you guys something.
My last GF I met her just as a casual friend online some time ago, we had common interests in food and shared a bit of similar background. She was married and we only went and hung out to eat (yes eventually met up in person). She was like my first female friend while I was going through a divorce. The problem is she ended up enjoying hanging out with me more and finally realized that I was more fun to be around socially, something new and exciting after 18 years of boring vanilla stuff at home. Her husband and her did all this kinky stuff in the bedroom at some point, but eventually he got tired of boning her regularly, and only wanted her to get his rocks off once in a while, out of sync and rhythm, and she was never satisfied (even though the husband was her first love, they were first BF/GF from college).
At some point after we hung out more, she confessed to me she wanted to bang the crap out of me, and that got me intrigued. I laughed it off overall, but enjoyed the entertainment. Unfortunately the more I hung out with her, the more I kind of wanted to screw her too. Eventually one night after dinner she was so horny (and a bit tippsy, I drove her back to my place), I relented and let her make a move on me and she had so much built up sexual frustration at home that it was an explosive session. I don't think her husband ever made her came, but she ended up O'ing 3 times with me on my first try (and it didn't take long either). And she got so addicted from the taste of pipe, she made excuses for herself bad mouthing her husband at every turn while downplaying everything she did that made her feel shameful and guilt doing it. While carving time out of her busy day to come over to get her fix of pipe.
It was so not worth it later because of the emotional roller coaster I fell into with her, as I also started catching feelings and she would randomly withdraw out of guilt and shame. Eventually she and her husband went through marriage counseling and she kept blaming him for a lot of things (and he essentially shut down). I was not supposed to maintain any contact with her, but eventually one day I came over to bring her food, and I banged the crap out of her in their marital bed. Eventually she separated and moved out, so I was at some point getting my weekly fix (and even staying overnight to keep her company at the same time). Unfortunately I also fell for her and she was essentially wanting a future with me. We stuck it out post divorce (hers) for a few years. However due to her emotional immaturity and instability, and my lack of a backbone, it was a wreck for me and eventually a drain. So glad I didn't marry this chick. We went our separate ways, but I've heard stories of her randomly giving it up to some dude who didn't want her, while her ex husband married the other chick he was cheating on with and now he has kids with that one.
And right before her divorce, the husband eventually went on overseas trip with this chick and also did a double take, did his own extra marital banging which shocked her. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
Fellas, you may think you have the upper hand with mongering and your chick not knowing. (and that's really an assumption)...but you will never know if your "hot wife" has a guy on the side and getting piped down by one other guy or more. Women are far more discreet with this stuff and can be vengeful. I just saw a video of a random guy interviewing a random chick and she said she kept a secret from her ex BF that she bang'd 4 guys 17 times because her ex BF was an awful person.
I mean, if I could effortlessly just by being myself, charm the socks out of a married woman who was in the wrong place at the right time, and offering casual fun and companionship in the beginning (really I wasn't offering any meat, she just evolved to crave it with the rollercoaster of excitement of fun times).... then it really won't take much for a woman to crack her legs open, just based on how she is feeling at the moment. It's like initial stages of dating and being chased and lusted after....powerful stuff. But for me, no thanks, only single unattached women for me for casual dating if at all moving forward. But with the way modern women are, even ones in their 30s and 40s and their sense of entitlement with toxic social media, I'm fine being single until the right one comes along. Too much trash out there Until then, thank goodness for Kgals. But even they have so much emotional baggage and damage from being in the business that they are even far more unpredictable.
Stay safe out there fellas.