Providers comments to customers....!!!!

[chrisdaco69]

Hi guys, my fellow monger sent me this & asked for my opinion. I try to be as neutral as possible. I don't like politics or getting into racism, because I really don't like to discriminate anybody. He informed me she was extremely nasty and kept calling him names and he was an old man, old enough to be her grampa.....(48) lol
I don't understand how a provider can act this way and still expect to conduct & run a successful business. I have used independent providers in the past and most if not all are respectful. What do you think? I see ads where provider also say "no AA". why? what's next, a website designed for specific ethnicities?


"Hey I'M Jackie. Just here for some fun snd make new friends. No white men or Latinos. They cheap and waste time or don't show up at all after getting location"

I hope I'm not offending anybody, If I am, I will try to delete post.. I believe we don't have the right to degrade or insult anybody without cause or with cause for that matter. I believe since I'm a paying customer and does not give me the right to insult a provider & vice versa. that's just my opinion. or maybe we are too old lol...

 

[codev]

Just don’t see her and keep it moving. Not worth it to get all bent up about every provider with that type of stuff in their ad.
and as far as communication with her being nasty I would hope your friend just cut it off and stopped texting her. Unless he was just looking to get a ride out of her for some reason.

 

[chrisdaco69]

I agree with you. Personally, I would stop the texting or calls. There's lots of providers out there to deal with one who's racist.

 

[BillyBlueEye]

Was the provider throwing those insults before or after a session with 'gramps'? I don't think she should do it either way but maybe she was mad about tip. Bad attitudes make for bad reviews which will hurt her business in the long run

As for the no 'AA', providers have a right to see who they want to see just as prospective clients have a right to see who they want too. If you dont like the ad then go elsewhere, there is always another woman willing to take your money

 

[이 회장님]

There’s three sides to every story—the customer’s, the provider’s and the truth.

 

[chrisdaco69]

My friend told me it was before and had no intention on meeting her after the insults. I agree with you, providers have the right to se whomever they want. We have the right to see any provider to our liking as well.

 

[chrisdaco69]

I couldn't agree with you more. Personally, i believe providers have the right to see whomever they want. We are picky as customers as well. Only thing i don't agree with insults from providers or customers.

 

[BillyBlueEye]

I couldn't agree with you more. Personally, i believe providers have the right to see whomever they want. We are picky as customers as well. Only thing i don't agree with insults from providers or customers.

Agree, insults are childish and accomplish nothing. If the provider thought your friend was too old for her tastes then she could have either just said so or said he wasn't her type...could have told him 100 other things without resorting to calling him names. Comes with the territory tho, you deal with people who work in this industry don't expect Ms. Manners every time you contact a provider.

As for the providers and us being selective there are certain types of providers I wont see that others rave about, its just personal preferences.

 

[chrisdaco69]

BBE, I agree everyone has a preference. I seen a few providers in the past that people raved about. We met, she didn't look like her pics. One time I declined, other times I didn't. I think if the provider is smart and makes the customer feel at easy and not worried, she can get his donation. Others are just too rude and makes us want to leave the room. I don't care if they are providers or a woman I met at a bar, I will give them respect. If she's an ass, then I'm out. My best experiences were with people I met in craigslist personals.

 

[BryanS]

My best experiences were with people I met in craigslist personals.

I miss CL personals LOL

 

[chrisdaco69]

Every week was a different adventure.

 

[11377]

I see ads where provider also say "no AA". why?

 

[chrisdaco69]

LOL...

 

[AutomaticSlim]

"Hey I'M Jackie. Just here for some fun snd make new friends. No white men or Latinos. They cheap and waste time or don't show up at all after getting location"

If I saw that you know what I would do?
I wouldn't see her, as after seeing that I know she would not want to see me, as I am in one of those 2 groups.
And I would be thankful, as I know I would not be wasting my time or my money.
Being up front with preferences is what we want in this business, as it greatly cuts down on the disappointments.
And they are 100% justified in their preferences, whatever they are, racial or otherwise.

FYI, I am way older than 48. If a girl does not want to see a "grandpa" like me, I would be grateful to see that in the ad -- so I don't waste my (or her) time.

 

[chrisdaco69]

100% agree with you. I rather the provider to post her preference in the ad, than call a clients names and make fun of them. Like I told my friend, maybe she has too many clients and does not care if she looses a future client.