Provider question/ getting too personal

[hamilton2015]

Has anyone experienced a provider not wanting to see you anymore because they stopped seeing you as a client and things got too personal?

A provider told me this and said that while she really liked me, she wouldn't see me anymore because of it. I understood and didn't push the issue but part of me was upset because the sessions were really good and she still provides. I asked her if she could ignore her feelings and still see me but she said she couldn't. After that she blocked my number which kind of hurt a little. I know she still provides, so does getting personal shut some providers off?

Has anyone experienced anything similar?

 

[green2]

Sounds like she was just protecting herself. Smart woman. As for me, never an issue but I'm no catch, lol

 

[Jackboner]

Has anyone experienced a provider not wanting to see you anymore because they stopped seeing you as a client and things got too personal?

A provider told me this and said that while she really liked me, she wouldn't see me anymore because of it. I understood and didn't push the issue but part of me was upset because the sessions were really good and she still provides. I asked her if she could ignore her feelings and still see me but she said she couldn't. After that she blocked my number which kind of hurt a little. I know she still provides, so does getting personal shut some providers off?

Has anyone experienced anything similar?

I hate to say it but She’s not getting personal. She got what she wanted out of you and has moved on.

 

[Chiparlor]

@hamilton2015 @Jackboner is right on the issue.

 

[Chiller]

@hamilton2015 @Jackboner is right on the issue.

I am not so sure; it doesn't sound like @hamilton2015 had given anything more than the usual and was just intending to continue to pay whatever her going rate is.

So the question is why would a provider turn down a continuing client (especially if she still works and doesn't seem to be scaling down her client list otherwise.). My guess is that either (1) there was an expectation of rising gift amounts, extra donations or something that was not explicitly conveyed and when it failed to materialize, she is pruning that branch, (2) for whatever reason the encounters were either not good for her physically, psychically, or hygeine wise, (3) she's a little crazy, or (4) she was concerned that either she or Hamilton was in fact developing a deeper affection that was likely going to end poorly, so it is easier to cut off the business now rather than later. Or some combo of those.

Just accept it and move on is my suggestion.

 

[Drjon7]

You're never going to know. It could be be many things that may or may not have anything to do you. People do things for many reasons that we are unaware of. Like everyone is telling you accept it and move on.
shit happens.

 

[Jdub42]

Why are you stressing over this for?

You will never get an answer for this at all. It could be a myriad of reasons. The fact that she blocked your number is a telling sign that there's no respect there and it's red flag. Are you still contacting her? Anytime I meet a woman on a date (non hobbying) and if there's no first, second or third date it never crossed my mind to block their numbers. Only time I'm blocking numbers is if it's a scam or something messed up took place. If it's social media, I don't want dudes snooping around (bad terms).

Anytime a woman wants to cut contact with you it's just time to find another woman but in this case another provider. There's too much women on the earth to stress over one.

Just leave it alone and move on.

 

[Brokenmatt]

Has anyone experienced a provider not wanting to see you anymore because they stopped seeing you as a client and things got too personal?

A provider told me this and said that while she really liked me, she wouldn't see me anymore because of it. I understood and didn't push the issue but part of me was upset because the sessions were really good and she still provides. I asked her if she could ignore her feelings and still see me but she said she couldn't. After that she blocked my number which kind of hurt a little. I know she still provides, so does getting personal shut some providers off?

Has anyone experienced anything similar?

Getting too personal is exactly that...it’s a business for the both of you, she gets what she wants and you get what you want in return. Anything past that, your in the wrong hobby

 

[hamilton2015]

I am not so sure; it doesn't sound like @hamilton2015 had given anything more than the usual and was just intending to continue to pay whatever her going rate is.

So the question is why would a provider turn down a continuing client (especially if she still works and doesn't seem to be scaling down her client list otherwise.). My guess is that either (1) there was an expectation of rising gift amounts, extra donations or something that was not explicitly conveyed and when it failed to materialize, she is pruning that branch, (2) for whatever reason the encounters were either not good for her physically, psychically, or hygeine wise, (3) she's a little crazy, or (4) she was concerned that either she or Hamilton was in fact developing a deeper affection that was likely going to end poorly, so it is easier to cut off the business now rather than later. Or some combo of those.

Just accept it and move on is my suggestion.

It was option 4, she told me this. But as everyone has mentioned, nothing to do but accept it and move on.

 

[hamilton2015]

Why are you stressing over this for?

You will never get an answer for this at all. It could be a myriad of reasons. The fact that she blocked your number is a telling sign that there's no respect there and it's red flag. Are you still contacting her? Anytime I meet a woman on a date (non hobbying) and if there's no first, second or third date it never crossed my mind to block their numbers. Only time I'm blocking numbers is if it's a scam or something messed up took place. If it's social media, I don't want dudes snooping around (bad terms).

Anytime a woman wants to cut contact with you it's just time to find another woman but in this case another provider. There's too much women on the earth to stress over one.

Just leave it alone and move on.

Haven't contacted her in a while since she blocked my number but just thought about the situation. But as everyone has suggested Ill just leave it alone and move on.

 

[hamilton2015]

You're never going to know. It could be be many things that may or may not have anything to do you. People do things for many reasons that we are unaware of. Like everyone is telling you accept it and move on.
shit happens.

True words.

 

[Glassdoor]

Sometimes it is better to pay, fuck and go....no emotions attached

 

[Jackboner]

Prostitutes go through men like guys go through razor blades. Use them then toss them.
To the OP, get over it and move on. There was never anything there beyond your money in exchange for her pussy. I mean that’s the reality of it....

 

[hamilton2015]

Prostitutes go through men like guys go through razor blades. Use them then toss them.
To the OP, get over it and move on. There was never anything there beyond your money in exchange for her pussy. I mean that’s the reality of it....

Appreciate the advice. You are right.

 

[Drjon7]

Lol that I did. I like to share experiences sometimes and hear other people's perspectives. A lot of guys on here have insightful views and share things which help each other.

I'm not looking for someone to sympathize. Just good conversation and advice which can help others who have similar questions or experiences.[

 

[Bricktop]

Has anyone experienced a provider not wanting to see you anymore because they stopped seeing you as a client and things got too personal?

A provider told me this and said that while she really liked me, she wouldn't see me anymore because of it. I understood and didn't push the issue but part of me was upset because the sessions were really good and she still provides. I asked her if she could ignore her feelings and still see me but she said she couldn't. After that she blocked my number which kind of hurt a little. I know she still provides, so does getting personal shut some providers off?

Has anyone experienced anything similar?

Nah she wants more money