Pro's and Con's of dating escorts

[Moosegreely973]

Pro's- No hassle of having a traditional wife/girlfriend to get sex. Choice of having different type of women shape, size, nationality, and age. The sex is great the providers has a lot of experience. Get any type of sex you want when you want it and how you want it as long as you got money. Walk away with no strings attached. Secrecy the freaky things you do with a escort is between you and them. No pregnancy worries these providers not trying to get pregnant at all.
Con's- It can be very dangerous meeting them for the first time for varies reasons. Fear of the unknown like how the provider looks us tricks know that most providers don't use their real pics or current photos. Fear of what this provider intentions are like is she trying to scam, rob, or working with law enforcement. Is she going to give good un rush service. It can be very expensive pretty quickly lol. You got to be very discipline. You have higher chance of catching an STI because of sleeping with providers that are promiscuous that sleep with promiscuous men. Last but not least being scared to tell people that you date escorts because they might judged or frowned upon you.
This is based on my experiences and my opinion. I've been tricking for 6 months. Let me know your pro's and con's of tricking. If you agree with me or disagree. Let's have a great discussion on the Pro's and con's of dating escorts! I'm anxious to see your replies.

 

[SingleMalt]

You don't really date escorts. You visit an escort. Typically this is an entirely private experience out of prying eyes. There are some escorts that will include a "date" out as part of your time. That is normally time you've purchased. If you're practicing safe sex and you're acting with discretion, then theres basically no risk or downside. The downsides mainly come from the lack of self-control. Since you're starting out, remember that you're paying for time only. Emotions are not included in the service, similar to batteries not included in toys.

 

[Moosegreely973]

You don't really date escorts. You visit an escort. Typically this is an entirely private experience out of prying eyes. There are some escorts that will include a "date" out as part of your time. That is normally time you've purchased. If you're practicing safe sex and you're acting with discretion, then there's basically no risk or downside. The downsides mainly come from the lack of self-control. Since you're starting out, remember that you're paying for time only. Emotions are not included in the service, similar to batteries not included in toys.

So your saying no downsides which means to me that you don't see con's of seeing escorts. I use the word date because I don't want to use sexually explicit language and every meet up isn't sexual.

 

[lowkeya]

only cons is you might get caught. If you catch something thats because your not practicing safe sex which alot of guys love and seek Bare Back. Which i dont get.

 

[onemangang]

only cons is you might get caught. If you catch something thats because your not practicing safe sex which alot of guys love and seek Bare Back. Which i dont get.

There is no "safe" sex.

 

[Moosegreely973]

There is no "safe" sex.

Using protection reduce risks of catching STIs

 

[paco2888]

Using protection reduce risks of catching STIs

Well that’s profound!

 

[AutomaticSlim]

@Moosegreely973

Pros - can have sex with very young and pretty girls pretty much at will as long as you have the $$$. Though you may sometimes get a "clunker" and pump and dump her anyway because you don't feel like complaining to the agency, you at least never have to see her again. Never have to deal with stuck up c*nts, fatties, plain janes, butterfaces, and especially wrinkled 40 y/o bags with stretch marks, cellulite and those horrific attitudes.

Cons - Assuming you do not have an SO, then loneliness. Lots and lots of loneliness. Which can easily lead to excessive drinking / alcoholism. And I suppose, for some, drug abuse. Some MGTOW type guys are fine with being alone. Enjoy it, even. Hanging out with the guys is enough for them. But if you're the type that needs true female companionship, then being a monger is a very lonely road.

I've been doing this just a tad longer than you...

 

[PhillyJimi]

@Moosegreely973

Pros - can have sex with very young and pretty girls pretty much at will as long as you have the $$$. Though you may sometimes get a "clunker" and pump and dump her anyway because you don't feel like complaining to the agency, you at least never have to see her again. Never have to deal with stuck up c*nts, fatties, plain janes, butterfaces, and especially wrinkled 40 y/o bags with stretch marks, cellulite and those horrific attitudes.

Cons - Assuming you do not have an SO, then loneliness. Lots and lots of loneliness. Which can easily lead to excessive drinking / alcoholism. And I suppose, for some, drug abuse. Some MGTOW type guys are fine with being alone. Enjoy it, even. Hanging out with the guys is enough for them. But if you're the type that needs true female companionship, then being a monger is a very lonely road.

I've been doing this just a tad longer than you...

If she is charging you then you're not dating her. It is just outcall.

You could say I have dated 2 AMP ladies and I have gotten quite a few completely free sessions also besides the 2 I dated. If you have some crazy fantasy that it is non-stop sex, hate to bust your bubble but it is not. You better be comfortable with them talking shop about what they do and their customers. It is a strange experience. More of a trusted friendship rather then the traditional relationship.

I have also "Known" some strippers. I highly recommend not getting involved with strippers way more trouble then they are worth.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

If she is charging you then you're not dating her. It is just outcall.

You could say I have dated 2 AMP ladies and I have gotten quite a few completely free sessions also besides the 2 I dated. If you have some crazy fantasy that it is non-stop sex, hate to bust your bubble but it is not. You better be comfortable with them talking shop about what they do and their customers. It is a strange experience. More of a trusted friendship rather then the traditional relationship.

I have also "Known" some strippers. I highly recommend not getting involved with strippers way more trouble then they are worth.

The OP later said "tricking" twice in his post, so I believe when he made the title to this thread, he really meant the traditional client/escort transaction, not "dating".
If you read his post closely, he mentions scams, LE, rob, rush service, etc...so it was clear to me he meant seeing escorts for hourly $$$, not dating them.

BTW, I too have have seen some of these girls outside the business...and I highly discourage it. But that's just me.

 

[charliebrown]

Pro's sex, for some, it may be the only outlet.
Con's, it is illegal, it is a bit unsafe, it cost a lot of money.

 

[Moosegreely973]

I meant Pro's and con's of tricking! I use the word dating because it sounds better than tricking. By reading the pro's and con's you know what I'm talking about

 

[Sewage2003]

Regarding strippers, I’ve dated several. It never went well. These are very emotionally damaged women who use men for a living.

Regarding dating providers, no I haven’t and cannot imagine how it could possibly be enjoyable beyond 1 night. Saving $320 on sex but then to have to enter her personal world seems like a bad trade to me.

 

[Moosegreely973]

Regarding strippers, I’ve dated several. It never went well. These are very emotionally damaged women who use men for a living.

Regarding dating providers, no I haven’t and cannot imagine how it could possibly be enjoyable beyond 1 night. Saving $320 on sex but then to have to enter her personal world seems like a bad trade to me.

I see what your talking about but I'm talking about the pros and cons of tricking

 

[wallstbs]

It’s better in the store.....

 

[JeffThorsen777]

In my opinion, dating sites make life a lot easier. This saves time and allows you to recognize the person from a distance.

 

[davidicusmax]

This thread is a mess because the OP was so confusing. Why were "dating" and "tricking" the only two available words? How about "seeing" an escort. "Spending time" with an escort. Language is your friend, not your enemy.

 

[Moosegreely973]

Reflecting on it I should've used "seeing" an escort or "Spending time" with an escort. It sounds better and more discreet

 

[rigandine]

BTW, I too have have seen some of these girls outside the business...and I highly discourage it. But that's just me.

Men and women have bad personality aspects / behaviors / emotional reactions that are entirely unique to each gender.

The bad personality aspects are completely unrestrained in escorts - their hypergamy instinct is completely unleashed. Its so raw and untamed you exchange funds for sex directly. The lack of patience , entitlement and total lack of moral behavior is off the charts. These women make horrible wives, girlfriends, and mothers. The vast majority of stories about dating these women result in the monger having his life totally ruined by these women. Avoid relationships with these women at all costs. Dont be an idiot. If she thinks its ok to have sex with thousands of strangers for money there are many other amoral behaviors she will think is acceptable to do as well.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Men and women have bad personality aspects / behaviors / emotional reactions that are entirely unique to each gender.

The bad personality aspects are completely unrestrained in escorts - their hypergamy instinct is completely unleashed. Its so raw and untamed you exchange funds for sex directly. The lack of patience , entitlement and total lack of moral behavior is off the charts. These women make horrible wives, girlfriends, and mothers. The vast majority of stories about dating these women result in the monger having his life totally ruined by these women. Avoid relationships with these women at all costs. Dont be an idiot. If she thinks its ok to have sex with thousands of strangers for money there are many other amoral behaviors she will think is acceptable to do as well.

Oh I agree 100%.
In my case it was past lapses in judgement due to extreme loneliness for steady female companionship.
I learned from my mistakes and luckily my life was not ruined.
But like you said, some guys do not get away so easy.
Thankfully I was never so far gone to even consider marriage.